Q is for Quixotic

Today’s word, quixotic,” is taken from the name of the hero of Cervantes’ 1605 novel with the themes of chivalry, romance, and sanity, “Don Quixote.” A quixotic person is someone who is idealistic, romantic, and impractical, often chasing lofty goals that are unlikely to succeed or even doomed to failure. My post today is the tale of a quixotic man who ultimately succumbs to the harsh realities of the real world.


He carried mornings like banners, unfolding them in crowded streets as if light itself would listen. He believed in levers hidden in kindness, in tolerance, in altruistic human nature, in speeches whispered to strangers, in the quiet geometry of change.

His pockets held plans sketched in pencil, smudged but fervent, maps that bent the world toward mercy. He spoke often of turning tides with nothing more than stubborn hope and a refusal to look away.

People smiled at this quirky, quixotic man the way they do at weather that promises rain that never arrives. But most doors closed with polite finality. Numbers did not bend, systems did not blush, and time proved less patient than he imagined.

Promises he made to himself and to anyone who would listen echoed in smaller and smaller rooms. They said he was tilting at windmills, overly optimistic and naive. Even the sky seemed indifferent, its vastness offering no reply.

Still, he pressed forward, his threadbare optimism stitched to his days, until the thread itself began to fray.

In the end, he folded his banners, not in defeat exactly, but in recognition that the world was not clay in his hands, but stone, and he had been trying to shape it with nothing but breath.


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H is for Happy-Go-Lucky

When I was a young man in my twenties, I was a happy-go-lucky guy. By that I mean that I had a carefree, easygoing, and cheerful attitude toward life. I took things as they came, didn’t worry too much about the future, or dwell on life’s problems or challenges.

But then something changed. I got married and had kids. My happy-go-lucky days were over. Suddenly I had responsibilities and couldn’t just think of myself anymore. My attitude did not do a compete 180, though. I morphed from happy-go-lucky to being optimistic. Yes, I had to think about my career, family obligations, and financial pressures, but I embraced a mindset that things would work out well in the future, even in challenging situations. My focus was on positive outcomes while planning for and taking actions to achieve my goals.

And then somewhere along the way, I morphed once again. Instead of being optimistic, I became skeptical, cynical, and dubious and turned into the proverbial grumpy old man. This transition first started to appear around the turn of the century and then really took hold when Donald Trump became president for the first time.

Eventually, though, I will likely return to the days of being happy-go-lucky again when my mind turns to mush and I won’t know any better than to be carefree and easy going.


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SoCS — I’ve Got Options

For this week’s Stream of Consciousness Saturday prompt from Linda G. Hill, we’ve been tasked with using the word “opt,” either as a word or to find a word with “opt” in it and base our post on that.

Of course I’m going to use the word “opt” in my post, but I’m also choosing the option of optimizing my Stream of Consciousness post today by opting to use a bunch of other words that have “opt” in them.

Coincidentally, I was supposed to have an appointment with my optometrist back in early February, right before my wife and I moved to our new house in the ‘burbs. Because we were busy packing and getting ready for the movers to load all of our stuff into their truck, I opted to cancel my optical exam, figuring that I’d schedule one after we got all settled in to our new home.

But then the pandemic hit and everything pretty much shut down. Now I’m way overdue to get my vision checked. And I’ve noticed recently that my distance vision seems to be getting a little blurry, so I think it’s no longer optional for me to schedule an appointment with a new, local optometrist or optician.

I’ve been looking around to find a decent optical shop in the area. It would be optimal if I could find an eye doctor who is taking new patients and who can give me a complete optical exam before the end of the year.

Being the optimistic person that I am, I’m sure I’ll be able to find an optometrist who can accommodate me. I sure hope my optimism is not misplaced.

Yes, I’m Angry

5B25D55D-D91C-409E-B0BC-B5B2E7829AA0I’m upset.

I’m frustrated.

I’m disappointed.

And I’m pissed.

Don’t worry, though

I’ll get over it.

Because what choice do I have?

There’s really very little I can do.

But I am hopeful that, eventually, the truth will out.

And decency and sanity will be restored.

I am optimistic that this madness will end.

I am counting on the survival of our republic.

But just in case I’m wrong

And Donald Trump gets re-elected

I will be exploring other countries to move to.

Being an expat might not be so bad

Compared to staying around

And witnessing the dissolution

Of the American republic.

O is for Optimistic

I’ve always thought of myself as an optimistic person. I try take a positive view of people, events, or conditions and hope for the most favorable outcomes.

I look for the good in people. I try to see the bright side of things. I perceive the proverbial glass filled to the halfway point as being half full rather than half empty.

I believe that my attitude and actions can, and often do, result in positive things happening and that I am responsible for my own happiness.

That said, while my nature is to be optimistic, I’m not some sort of Pollyanna who is an unrealistic optimist. Unlike Voltaire’s Dr. Pangloss from Candide, I don’t subscribe to the notion that everything is for the best in this “best of all possible worlds.”

Nor am I so naive that I play the “everything-will-be-terrific” game. I don’t talk about how wonderful things are or how terrific everything will turn out when faced with genuinely bad or unfortunate events.

I don’t overlook real problems and issues that need to be addressed. I understand that, in certain circumstances, positive change cannot be achieved, and I am able to accept that.

97129394-F143-4E14-97C6-AF07927B167DBut, all things considered, I am optimistic. The sun will come out tomorrow.