Thursday Inspiration — Feeling Good

For this week’s Thursday Inspiration prompt, Jim Adams said we could respond to this challenge by either using the prompt word “know,” or going with the above picture, any by means of a song that is about emancipation freeing someone from the control of another, or by going with anything else we think fits.

I’m responding to this prompt in two ways. First, I’m focusing on the title, “Feeling Good,” and the line in the image, “A man’s got to know his limitations.”

We are one-third of the way through April, a month that I have dubbed my recuperation month. So far, all things considered, I am feeling pretty good. At the same time, I need to be cognizant of my limitations. I’m still under restrictive movement guidelines known colloquially as “No BLT,” where B stands for bending, L for lifting, and T for twisting. Unfortunately, the better I feel, the harder it is for me to remember to not bend, lift, or twist.

I have an appointment with the surgeon’s physcian’s assistant (PA) tomorrow. I will be getting x-rays and am hoping that the “No BLT” restrictions will be lifted and that I’ll be approved to get behind the wheel of the car and drive again, which I haven’t done since early November of last year.

No matter what the PA says, I will still have some limitations on what I can and can’t do as long as I’m undergoing physical therapy for the next few months. And I can deal with that.

Jim also talked about responding with a song about freeing someone from the control of another. And the song that popped into my head was the classic from the Rolling Stones, “Under My Thumb.”

Being “under one’s thumb” means to be under someone else’s control. This song is an examination of a sexual power struggle, in which the lyrics celebrate the success of finally having controlled and gained leverage over a previously pushy, dominating woman. Now, she is under his thumb and referred to as the “sweetest pet in the world.”

Some feminist groups found the song quite offensive. In a 1984 interview, Jagger explained: “The whole idea was that I was under HER thumb; she was kicking ME around. So the whole concept is absurd; all I did was turn the tables around. Women interpreted that as being against femininity, while in reality, it was meant to convey a sense of ‘getting back’ against being a repressed male.”

Here are the lyrics to “Under My Thumb.”

Under my thumb
The girl who once had me down
Under my thumb
The girl who once pushed me around

It's down to me
The difference in the clothes she wears
Down to me, the change has come
She's under my thumb

And ain't it the truth babe?

Under my thumb
It's a squirmin' dog who's just had her day
Under my thumb
A girl who has just changed her ways

It's down to me
Yes it is
The way she does just what she's told down to me
The change has come
She's under my thumb
Ah, ah, say it's alright

Under my thumb
It's a Siamese cat of a girl
Under my thumb
She's the sweetest, hmmm, pet in the world

It's down to me
The way she talks when she's spoken to
Down to me, the change has come
She's under my thumb
Ah, take it easy babe
Yeah

It's down to me, oh yeah
The way she talks when she's spoken to
Down to me, the change has come
She's under my thumb
Yeah, it feels alright

Under my thumb
Her eyes are just kept to herself
Under my thumb, well I
I can still look at someone else

It's down to me, oh that's what I said
The way she talks when she's spoken to
Down to me, the change has come
She's under my thumb
Say, it's alright

Say it's all
Say it's all

Take it easy babe
Take it easy babe
Feels alright
Take it, take it easy babe

Thursday Inspiration — The Queen’s Skeleton Army

For this week’s Thursday Inspiration prompt, Jim Adams has asked us to respond by either using the word control, by going with the above picture, or by going with anything else that we think fits.

The image made me think of an evil queen who conjure up a skeletal army and attempts to rule the world. This is the story I conjured up.

In primordial times, in the desolate realm of Eldrath, Queen Moriana, a fearsome warrior with a heart as cold as the Northern Wastes, harbored a malevolent ambition. Obsessed with domination, she delved into forbidden dark arts to amass a formidable skeleton army, an evil legion fueled by necromantic sorcery in her unholy quest to control the world.

Moriana’s black eyes gleamed with a sinister resolve as she plotted to unleash her skeletal minions upon the unsuspecting kingdoms, seeking to subjugate all in her path. Under her ruthless leadership, the skeleton army marched across the land, spreading fear and destruction in their wake. Villages trembled at the sight of their bony forms, and kingdoms cowered before her might. Moriana reveled in the chaos and in her newfound dominance.

However, as Moriana’s empire grew, whispers of rebellion began to echo through the shadows. A group of brave warriors, united by their desire to free the world from Moriana’s tyranny, rose to challenge her rule.

Mounted side by side on their horses, the resistance fought valiantly against the skeleton army. Their determination and unwavering spirit ignited a spark of hope in the hearts of the oppressed.

In the heat of a climactic battle against Moriana, the brave warriors of the resistance furiously clashed with the skeleton army. With every swing, they challenged Moriana’s malevolence, refusing to let her skeletal minions dictate the fate of the world as the air resonated with the clash of steel and the eerie rattling of bones.

Moriana underestimated the resilience of the living. In the end, her skeletal army crumbled, and she faced a reckoning at the hands of those who defied her dark dominion.

The tale of the evil warrior queen and her thirst for control became a cautionary legend, reminding future generations of the dangers of unchecked ambition and the power of unity and courage in the face of darkness.


Post includes these daily prompts: Fandango’s One Word Challenge (primordial), Ragtag Daily Prompt (side by side), The Daily Spur (horse), and Word of the Day Challenge (heat).

Fandango’s Provocative Question #203

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Welcome once again to Fandango’s Provocative Question. Each week I will pose what I think is a provocative question for your consideration.

By provocative, I don’t mean a question that will cause annoyance or anger. Nor do I mean a question intended to arouse sexual desire or interest.

What I do mean is a question that is likely to get you to think, to be creative, and to provoke a response. Hopefully a positive response.

I like to think that I’m in charge of my life and that, for better or worse, the course that my life has taken was established by the decisions — the choices — I’ve made along the way.

I know that there are others who feel pretty much the same way that I do, that our lives are formed by things that are within our control. But I’m sure that others feel very differently, and believe that much of our lives are formed by things that are outside of our control. Perhaps they call it fate or destiny, but the overall course of our lives, they believe, is predetermined.

And that brings me to today’s provocative question.

To what degree have you been able to control the course that your life has taken?

If you choose to participate, you may respond with a comment or write your own post in response to the question. Once you are done, tag your post with #FPQ and create a pingback to this post if you are on WordPress. Or you can simply include a link to your post in the comments. But remember to check to confirm that your pingback or your link shows up in the comments. Note that recently a lot of bloggers have been reporting that pingbacks aren’t working.

Who Won The Week — 11/13/22

The idea behind Who Won the Week is to give you the opportunity to select who (or what) you think “won” this past week. Your selection can be anyone or anything — politicians, celebrities, athletes, authors, bloggers, your friends or family members, books, movies, TV shows, businesses, organizations, whatever.

It’s been almost a month since I last published a Who Won the Week post. Frankly, there hasn’t been much to crow about in my humble opinion. But this week there is.

Republicans were anticipating a big red wave in this year’s midterm elections, but what they got instead was barely a trickle. On Tuesday, in a repudiation of GOP election deniers and hard-core Trumpism, voters came out in droves to save democracy in America.

Democrats maintained control of the U.S. Senate when the incumbent Catherine Cortez Masto won a close race in Nevada to give the the Democrats 50 seats in the chamber, with Vice President Kamala Harris as the tie-breaking vote. Democrats could still gain a true majority (51-49) in the Senate, depending on the outcome of the Senate race in Georgia, which is headed to a runoff between Raphael Warnock, the Democratic incumbent, and Herschel Walker, a Donald Trump-endorsed former football star, after neither won a majority of votes on Election Day.

Democrats also fended off the GOP in most of the tossup districts Republicans had targeted in the House of Representatives. Hence, it’s not likely either party will have more than a slim majority next year, even though the Republicans will likely have more seats in the House than the Democrats. That said, there is still a very slim chance that, when all the votes are tallied, the Dems might still be in the hunt for an upset win.

So who (or what) do you think won the week?

If you want to participate, write your own post designating who you think won the week and why you think they deserve your nod. Then link back to this post and tag you post with FWWTW.

Fandango’s Provocative Question #157

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Welcome once again to Fandango’s Provocative Question. Each week I will pose what I think is a provocative question for your consideration.

By provocative, I don’t mean a question that will cause annoyance or anger. Nor do I mean a question intended to arouse sexual desire or interest.

What I do mean is a question that is likely to get you to think, to be creative, and to provoke a response. Hopefully a positive response.

Shit happens. No matter how hard we try, we can’t stop certain things from happening. We can’t always control what is going on around us and, therefore, we can’t totally control what is happening in our lives. In fact, there is a growing body of research in neuroscience suggesting that we aren’t really in charge of our lives, at least to the degree we think we are.

Yet one of our basic human needs is a sense of control, to know that we have a choice, that our actions make a difference.

Given the matter how much control we have over our own lives, my provocative question this week is…

Looking at your own situation, how much of your life is formed by things that are outside of your control versus things that are within your control? Please elaborate to the extent you feel comfortable.

If you choose to participate, write a post with your response to the question. Once you are done, tag your post with #FPQ and create a pingback to this post if you are on WordPress. Or you can simply include a link to your post in the comments. But remember to check to confirm that your pingback or your link shows up in the comments.

TMP — Remote Overload

Every Monday, Paula Light, with her The Monday Peeve prompt, gives us an opportunity to vent or rant about something that pisses us off. What pisses me off today is the fact that I have four TV remote control devices sitting on my coffee table in my living room. Four!

Back in the day, all anyone really needed was one TV remote control. A single device to turn the TV on and off, to change channels, and to adjust the volume. Easy peasy.

Things are different today. Take a look at the picture above. The remote on the left is for the TV itself and I use it to change the signal source from the satellite dish to the streaming channels. I also use it to connect to the Bluetooth headphones I wear when watching TV.

Next to that is the remote control for Dish, the satellite service we use. Other than when we’re streaming, we use Dish for watching live TV and for programs we recorded on our DVR. Then there’s our Roku remote control for when we’re watching streaming channels like Netflix, Hulu, Prime, Apple TV, and Discovery Plus.

The device on the right is for Flex, the streaming service from Comcast, although truth be told, we rarely use that device.

There is a silver lining, though, to this whole remote control overload situation. My wife and I used to fight over control of the remote control, but now she has ceded control of the remote controls to me. I feel like the all powerful Oz!

Fandango’s Provocative Question #88

FPQWelcome once again to Fandango’s Provocative Question. Each week I will pose what I think is a provocative question for your consideration.

By provocative, I don’t mean a question that will cause annoyance or anger. Nor do I mean a question intended to arouse sexual desire or interest.

What I do mean is a question that is likely to get you to think, to be creative, and to provoke a response. Hopefully a positive response.

This week’s provocative question is about control — or lack thereof.I’ve never been someone who believes in fate or predestination. I’ve always felt that I am in control of my life. The decisions I have made, my actions, and my choices have, for better or for worse, gotten me to where I am. And because these decisions, actions, and choices were mine, I believed that I was in control.

But now I’m not so sure anymore. With all the shit that is going on around us — the pandemic, extreme partisan politics, social unrest, corruption at the highest levels of the government, the WordPress block editor — I’m starting to feel that I no longer am in control of my life.

Maybe I’m being a bit melodramatic about the way I’m feeling these days, and I don’t know if anyone else is feeling somewhat overwhelmed and out of control as I am. But I guess there’s one way to find out, and that brings me to this week’s provocative question:

To what degree have you been able to control the course that your life has taken? Or is being in control of your life just an illusion?

If you choose to participate, write a post with your response to the question. Once you are done, tag your post with #FPQ and create a pingback to this post if you are on WordPress. Or you can simply include a link to your post in the comments. But remember to check to confirm that your pingback or your link shows up in the comments.

Fandango’s Provocative Question #83

FPQWelcome once again to Fandango’s Provocative Question. Each week I will pose what I think is a provocative question for your consideration.

By provocative, I don’t mean a question that will cause annoyance or anger. Nor do I mean a question intended to arouse sexual desire or interest.

What I do mean is a question that is likely to get you to think, to be creative, and to provoke a response. Hopefully a positive response.

My provocative question this week is about technology. I have been attempting, over the past 24 hours since WordPress forced me to use the Block editor, to try to figure out how to make it work on my iPhone, which is the device I use for my blog. So far I have not mastered it, and even when I attempt to use the so-called “Classic” block, I end up getting an error message and basically have to use the wp-admin version of the Classic editor, where it takes me way longer to write a post than it did on the good old Classic editor that the geniuses at WordPress decided to “retire.”

As a result, I’m thinking about ending my blog, or perhaps finding another platform, like Blogger or Medium. So that got me thinking about whether or not we, in this information/technology age, are subservient to the technology we depend upon. So my provocative question to you this week is this:

Do we control technology or is technology controlling us?

If you choose to participate, write a post with your response to the question. Once you are done, tag your post with #FPQ and create a pingback to this post if you are on WordPress. Or you can simply include a link to your post in the comments. But remember to check to confirm that your pingback or your link shows up in the comments.

Share Your World — Going Deep

Share Your WorldFor today’s Share Your World edition, Melanie said that she’s asking a few philosophical questions. While she’s going deep with her questions, I’m going to wade in the shallow end of the pool with my answers.

Must we have evidence to know the truth?

It helps, although the Republicans in Congress can’t seem to acknowledge the truth about their president despite all of the evidence about his misdeeds and incompetence.

How much control does a person have over their life?

You can control only your own actions and life, but you have little control over the actions and lives of others and how that might affect your own life. You can only do what you can to make the best of it.

What is gravity and how does it work?

According to Albert Einstein, gravity is “a consequence of the curvature of spacetime caused by the uneven distribution of mass.” I have no idea what those words actually mean, so don’t even ask me to explain how it works. All I know is that if you drop something, it falls, and that’s somehow due to gravity.

Can a person be happy if they have never experienced sadness? How about vice versa?

I don’t think experiencing happiness or sadness is dependent upon having experienced the opposite. As the old song goes, if you’re happy and you know it, clap your hands. If your sad and you know, but you don’t want to show it, go take a nap and sleep it off.