If you want to be inspired, hang around these people

If you want to be inspired, hang around these people

Whether we will it or not, the environment we surround ourselves with, the peers we connect with, heavily influence our creativity, productivity, and attitude. You’ve probably already been told a million times who NOT to hang out with, but as a creative who desires to be inspired for their art, who do you hang out with?

  • Someone who has had an adventure

This is the person who perhaps lived in another city for a time or went on a hike or vacationed to a foreign country or studied abroad or pursued a business endeavor or what-have-you. Even if their adventure wasn’t particularly successful, this is someone who isn’t afraid of trying new things, finds excitement in the unfamiliar, and can be some strong motivation for you to go on your own adventures.

  • Someone who is fiercely independent

Hanging around people who won’t take action to move out of mom and dad’s house is going to hold you back. An independent person who has had experiences will influence you to make some confident, independent decisions, perhaps the same ones that helped them get out the door.

  • Someone who knows people

It’s not unwise to actively seek out people who have valuable connections that can benefit your career. This is someone who is probably more social than you, someone who makes friends easily and is likable, which will make you likable. Those who work in creative industries know that connections are the life of artistic success.

  • Someone who has strong opinions

We don’t usually care for opinionated people, as they can at times be annoyingly stubborn and arrogant. However, someone with strong opinions is a greater influence than someone who is ambiguous and indifferent. They are much more likely to be listened to, and they emit a personality of self-confidence and morality. They can be the person who points out flaws in your plans that you are otherwise biased about and provide constructive criticism, which could help you make smarter decisions. It must be someone you trust very deeply, else their opinions will go unheeded.

  • Someone who is moved by aesthetic experiences

People who admire and appreciate beauty in different forms are extraordinarily deep and creative individuals who are not only pleasing to be around but are contagious of passion. Hang around someone who notices the architectural details of an old house or who wonders at the natural causes of a geographical monument or who enjoys breaking down the aspects of a good film.

  • Someone who participates in a physical hobby

Even if it’s just working out, a person who spends time being active for fun as well as health is overall a more productive, more positive person. And they may influence you to take up a sport as well.

  • Someone who is not affected by chaos

NOT someone who creates chaos (no one needs that in their life). This is someone who is strong-willed and is not easily upset by unstable environments. Whether they truly are unmoved or are just extremely good at faking calm, they’ll keep your feet on the ground in stressful situations.

  • Someone who is not easily offended

Name-calling, stereotyping, and difference of opinions goes over this person’s head. They hold their own beliefs and standards while not pushing it on others, at the same time being unconcerned with what others think.

  • Someone who is exceptionally intuitive

They can be a little scary, but you’ll appreciate having someone in your life who can read you and know what’s on your mind before you even speak. They’re like a psychic without all the weird supernatural stuff. They just know you that well. Hang around someone who knows how to point out what needs pointing out as well as holding back for the sake of better timing.

 

Surrounding ourselves with the right formula of environment can make or break a career, can make us a positive or negative person, and can open up opportunities that wouldn’t have been available in a different place. The people, most of all, influence the strongest. If your crowd is not inspiring you, then it’s time to make some new friends.

 

My Top 5 favorite things in D.C.

There are plenty of things in D.C. and Arlington that I love, but there were a few special things that stood out among the rest. Here are my top 5:

The Library of Congress. Hands down my absolute favorite building in D.C. I could keep coming back here again and again.

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The WWII Memorial. This memorial quickly became my go-to spot when I wanted to chill and enjoy the lovely weather. Or people watch 🙂

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Arlington Cemetery. I have a beautiful memory here. I got to watch, from a distance, an elderly man place a bouquet of flowers at a grave and quietly pay respects to it. There was a story there, a beautiful mystery, and I keep thinking about it.

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Autumn. This kind of autumn doesn’t exist in Texas. So beautiful…

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Snow on Thanksgiving! Nothing like waking up and looking out the window to see a flurry of snow! For me, who has never seen such a sight in her life, it was magic come to life.

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Bonus: Old Town Alexandria. I could live here quite happily ^_^

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Beauty in Washington D.C.

I love being here! I still have a little over a month left in Arlington, Virginia, and I have been really enjoying it. I’ve revisited some favorite places and seen new places (which are now more favorites). Just to share a little bit of my adventure, here are some pictures 🙂

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The World War II Memorial; a beautiful structure perfect for sitting down and taking a breather

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Around the WWII Memorial each of the fifty states, and other places like Pueto Rico, have their place. As a Texan, I had to get a picture of Texas ^_^

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A view from the Lincoln Memorial upon the Reflection Pool and the Washington Monument

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Tried to get my little boots in the shot

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Perhaps my favorite memorial, the Vietnam Memorial. With my senior pastor, Pastor Lee, a Vietnam War veteran, having just passed away recently, coming here had a new significant impact on me. I even teared up a little…

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The Arlington Cemetery. This place takes my breath away….

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I found a little off-path trail and came right up to the gravestones. The place was so silent.

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When you stand on the top of the hill at Arlington Cemetery, in front of Arlington House, this is the view. And what a view it is…

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Took a little selfie while chilling at the Lincoln Memorial. I never take selfies, so it’s special 😛

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This is Raven, my two-month old niece. She is a beauty! And a very picky sleeper 🙂

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The Fashion Centre Mall in the Pentagon Area. Four stories, perhaps the largest mall I’ve ever been in!

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My favorite building in D.C. is the Library of Congress. This place is a true architectural wonder.

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I never noticed it the last time, but on the floor in the Library are the zodiac sign symbols. So I found mine, Pisces, and took a picture.

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As I walked from the Library of Congress to the White House, this was constantly within in view. And I loved every angle 🙂

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While at lunch in Georgetown (lovely little town) with my sister, she snaps a photo of me. She’s so skilled in getting great pics

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View of the White House.

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As I sat reading on a bench in the park next to the White House, I hear a horse’s whinny. I turn around and see a police officer on a horse clip-clop by down the street 😀

A Poem A Day #484

A new horizon,
A new kind of atmosphere…
A city to love.

By Catherine Joy

Here I am in Arlington, Virginia. I am feeling homesick, but that’s perfectly normal for me. It’s been a crazy week, which hasn’t allowed me much time or focus to put into things. My head is still a little mushy from everything, but in time it will settle down and I’ll be back on track. On to the adventure!

5 Things I’m looking forward to when I go to Virginia

So, in exactly 5 days, I will be flying out to Arlington, Virginia to live with my sister for two months and be a part-time nanny for her newborn daughter, and I AM SO FLIPPIN’ EXCITED! There are many, many reasons why I am excited, but there’s about 5 top things I’m looking forward to the most:

  1. Living so close to Washington D.C.! From my sister’s house, it would take me just about 15-20 minutes to get to D.C. through the metro or even driving. That thought alone makes me grin like a fool. I am so in love with that city, and now I get to be there for two months!
  2. Experience living away from home. It will be my first official experience of living away from home. I will more than likely get homesick as I always do, but I really need to experience it. It’ll be healthy for me.
  3. A change of scenery. Especially of late, I feel like I’ve been needing a change of scenery just to switch things up. I don’t want to get so comfortable in one place that it becomes impossible for me to leave, so I really need it.
  4. Lots of Me time. Granted, I’ll be looking after a baby, but it’ll just be me and her most of the time, and I’ll have time to take breaks and spend time with myself. I cannot remember the last time I’ve had a lot of time to myself. It will also be nice to not have to take care of other people back home (no guarantee I won’t worry about them…).
  5. Lots of time with God. Not only will I have less distractions to focus on me, but I will be able to focus more time on God. I’m looking forward to being away and having time to sort through thoughts I’ve had to put on hold most of the time. Maybe I’ll even have answers at the end of the two months….

This is a really exciting change in my life, and I’m looking forward to all the benefits it will bring. See you in Virginia!

Future 15: Write a screenplay

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Besides being an author of literary fiction, I dream of also being a screenwriter. I love movies, and I often dreamed of being a part of the team that made a movie happen. I hope to accomplish at least one successful screenplay, and more certainly wouldn’t hurt. I’m currently taking a screenwriting class at Austin Community College for my Creative Writing degree, and so perhaps a project will emerge from that. I’ve already had plenty of ideas for screenplays. And you know what would be even more amazing? If one of my future novels becomes a movie. That would be an adventure!