Looking Forward

King Shit of Turd Mountain

In court last week, I told  King Shit of Turd Mountain that I would send him copies of the kids insurance cards so that he could take them to the counseling he believes they so desperately need.

From: Stacey 
Sent: Wednesday, March 13, 2013 7:34 AM
To: King Shit of Turd Mountian
Subject: Mainecare

I’ve attached a scan of the kid’s mainecare cards.

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From:  King Shit of Turd Mountain
To: Stacey 
Sent: Wednesday, March 13, 2013 2:44 PM
Subject: RE: Mainecare

I have no access to MaineCare to determine coverage amounts and limits for counseling.  Without access or the needed information I will have little alternative other than to move forward with scheduling sessions for them and have the bills sent to you per our divorce agreement.  I have been told to ask you first which is what I am doing.
Additionally, D will need braces and this will need to be verified as happening as soon as possible.  Let me know with whom this is to be done.
I also need to know the any and all doctors or other medical professionals the children have seen in the last three years so that I may inquire into medical records.
Per the upcoming trial, I will need to know the name of your attorney so that I may contact this person in regards to motions and issues ongoing with the trial.  Time is of the essence.
Thank you for your prompt attention to these matters.

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From: Stacey
Sent: Wednesday, March 13, 2013 2:16 PM
To: King Shit of Turd Mountain
Subject: Re: Mainecare

The phone number is 1-866-690-5585 to find out about their eligibility or you can go to https://mainecare.maine.gov/Memberdefault.aspx. There is no need for a referral or prior authorization for mental health services. If you choose to use a provider that doesn’t accept Mainecare, you will be liable for those bills.

The children have not changed doctors since they were born. You already have that information. As I mentioned in a previous email to you, D was evaluated by Dr. _________ at the _________ in Bangor. This was based on a referral from __________, who we were referred to from his primary Dr. You also have already been made aware of the counselors that the boys have both seen,_______________. This is the counselor you agreed for the boys to see again when you take them.
D has also seen ___________ for counseling.

D goes to the dentist regularly, you can contact __________Dental if you choose to discuss orthodontics with them.

Thanks,
Stacey

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I am not on the approved list with access so I can not find out about anything.  YOU are responsible for all medical bills.  As far as I know I am under no obligation to go with anyone under your MaineCare even though I am attempting to limit your costs by going with your MaineCare provider.  Should there be a lack of availability on his part, I may need to consider alternatives that may be outside of the network of providers who accept MaineCare.  You will be billed for these sessions as well if that is the route that must be taken.

I will not be paying for any Orthodontics for D as this is something you are responsible for.  If you have a preference for a Dental provider to keep your costs down I will be more than happy to discuss that with you.  He needs braces and you are responsible for payment of them.

Again I ask – Do you have a contact name and number for your attorney as you seemed to indicate you would get one to the magistrate.  Additionally, will this attorney be handling all of your matters including those outside the scope of family law?

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I stopped corresponding with him. There is no “access list”. It feels like he wants me to make the appointments for them.
DHHS won’t give him any of their information about me or the kids as we are the insured, but that doesn’t mean that he can’t check eligibility with the online site, or with the prerecorded phone service, as he is the other parent. He can also call and make them an appointment, and present their insurance cards. Anyone really, could do this. My husband could do this. My mother could do this.
Seriously. Is this how he is? Unable to do the very basic things in order to take care of a child? Like make an appointment and accessing insurance? Or is he just being a jerk? Also, when did he get his degree in orthodontics? D doesn’t NEED braces. Its headgear and an appliance that he could use. I talked with an orthodontist. He also said its painful, uncomfortable and would likely interfere with D’s sleeping. Oh, and its also 1200.00. Currently, with our insurance, the closest orthodontist is an hour away. If he’d like to pursue this, he can certainly do so. 

What a dick.