Alex.GentlemanSwine
San Francisco-based bator, fister, and overall kinkster. An active learner, practitioner, and mentor around polyamory, tantra, kink, and intentional touch.
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My Qasa Retreat Center work
My ONLINE COURSE in Feb ($99): Queer Arrival, A 30-Day Practice of Coming Home
My ONLINE COURSE in Feb ($99): Queer Arrival, A 30-Day Practice of Coming Home
Your life looks good. So why does it still feel like you’re one step away from arriving? Queer Arrival is a four-week Qasa container for queer men who are ready to stop performing and start inhabiting their lives.
Conscious Kink program I lead at Qasa Retreat Center (Feb & May26)
Conscious Kink program I lead at Qasa Retreat Center (Feb & May26)
An advanced immersion in erotic aliveness, sacred consent, and queer liberation for experienced participants ready to explore the transformative edges of their erotic potential through kink-informed practices.
QASA RETREAT DISCOUNT of $200 w code ALEX200
QASA RETREAT DISCOUNT of $200 w code ALEX200
Explore our extravagant LGBTQ+ Retreats in Costa Rica. Experience "Pura Vida" like never before with your serene retreat in Costa Rica.
Queer sexual wellness program I recently developed and facilitated in Costa Rica
Queer sexual wellness program I recently developed and facilitated in Costa Rica
My Pleasure & Sexuality Content
Interview with me on Bate Escape Audio Podcast
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Interview with me on Bate Escape Audio Podcast
The Bate Escape by BeastlyB8R · Episode
Same Bate Escape interview, video format on youTube
Same Bate Escape interview, video format on youTube
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Theory of Shame & Liberation paper
Theory of Shame & Liberation paper
An Integrated Theory of Shame, Embodiment, and Queer Spiritual Liberation Compiled by Alex Sloan, Qasa Queer Wellness Retreat Center This paper offers a shared entry point into the psychospiritual framework that informs the Qasa approach and the Conscious Kink retreat, drawing on queer scholarshi...
Short paper on ecstasy in sex and religion
Short paper on ecstasy in sex and religion
Interview with me in BatorSexZine Vol 3
Interview with me in BatorSexZine Vol 3
My EROTIC NSFW Audio
Audio of me coaching bate gatherings (NSFW!)
Audio of me coaching bate gatherings (NSFW!)
San Francisco-based kinkster, bator, and queer sexual wellness facilitator.
My Recommended Sexuality Resources
The Velvet Rage, Alan Downs
The Velvet Rage, Alan Downs
Amazon.com: The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man's World, Second Edition: 9780738215679: Downs Ph. D. PhD, Alan: Books
Divine Androgyne Brief Overview
Divine Androgyne Brief Overview
Overview and Context of The Divine Androgyne A Sacred Text for the Conscious Kink Journey By Alex Sloan The Conscious Kink retreat invites queer men into a journey of erotic embodiment, relational liberation, and spiritual awakening—where kink and intimacy are not distractions from enlightenment,...
"The Divine Androgyne" by Purusha (1981): beautiful read on pleasure as means to queer liberation and spiritual connection
"The Divine Androgyne" by Purusha (1981): beautiful read on pleasure as means to queer liberation and spiritual connection
BatorSex Zine: amazing collection of knowledge and erotica from BatorBro
BatorSex Zine: amazing collection of knowledge and erotica from BatorBro
Book: The Gooner's Handbook: Intensify and Elevate Your Bate: Oliver, Wynward H.: 9798327727212: Amazon.com: Books
Book: The Gooner's Handbook: Intensify and Elevate Your Bate: Oliver, Wynward H.: 9798327727212: Amazon.com: Books
Book: "Polysecure" by Jessica Fern, on ethical relationship models
Book: "Polysecure" by Jessica Fern, on ethical relationship models
My Recs: fav solosex podcasts
The Bate Escape
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The Bate Escape
Podcast · BEASTLYB8R · Curious about Solosexuality? You're definitely in the right place! A podcast dedicated to masturbation, self-love, and Solosexual pride! Every two weeks, Beastly sits down and chats with Bators in the masturbation community about sex, life, and all things masturbation. Listening to fun, meaningful conversations about sexuality and join Beastly in working to destigmatize masturbation and embrace a Solosexual lifestyle full of joy and love! Hosted by BeastlyB8R
Conversation with Batemates
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Conversation with Batemates
Podcast · B8tem8te · Hey Bros, this is B8tem8te from Twitter/X! Welcome to ‘Conversation with BateMates’, where we deep dive into the world of masturbation. With my bator bros, we have real talks about bating with other men, health, happiness, and the empowerment provided by bating. We’ll look to into the positive, the stigma around bating and how to normalize self pleasure. So whether you’re already part of the Bators community or just a beginner, you’re in the right place!
The Heart of Jacks Podcast
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The Heart of Jacks Podcast
Podcast · Paul Rosenberg · Conversations about sex—mostly between men—that might surprise you. Host Paul Rosenberg, writer, community organizer, and sex-positive activist in Seattle, talks with bloggers, writers, scientists, sexologists, artists, teachers, and regular folks about the “ordinary magic” of authentic human sexuality and everything that gets stirred up by it. Listen in and join the conversation.
"Dear Humanity," a Lovecast with Laura Dawn
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"Dear Humanity," a Lovecast with Laura Dawn
Queer Wellness Retreats/Experiences
Discover LGBTQ+ Retreats in Costa Rica - Jungle Gayborhood
Discover LGBTQ+ Retreats in Costa Rica - Jungle Gayborhood
Explore our extravagant LGBTQ+ Retreats in Costa Rica. Experience "Pura Vida" like never before with your serene retreat in Costa Rica.
Orgasmic Shaman
Orgasmic Shaman
Court Vox Retreats
Court Vox Retreats
Sexual Wellness & Intimacy Coaching
Finn Deerhart Retreats
Finn Deerhart Retreats
Home • Dr. Jallen Rix
Home • Dr. Jallen Rix
Discover Tantra for Gay Men - Transformative Workshops
Discover Tantra for Gay Men - Transformative Workshops
Masturbation Gatherings I recommend
Masturbation Convention, Pittsburgh, 8/31/25: I’ll be coaching bate sessions and wellness discussions
Masturbation Convention, Pittsburgh, 8/31/25: I’ll be coaching bate sessions and wellness discussions
Join the Master Bator Convention in Pittsburgh, PA for a unique men's masturbation experience in August 2026. Be part of the bator brotherhood!
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