This is probably my most precious heirloom and one of the very few that have come down to me as my mother’s family didn’t keep and pass things down to the next generation. Ray was my maternal grandfather but he had died 20 years before I was born; so obviously, I never met him. Mum didn’t talk about him much but as she was only 10 when he died, it must have been very difficult for her. I was only 19 when she died; so perhaps, if she had lived longer we would have talked more about him. She did treasure his birthday book and his autograph book.
Ray was named Raymond James (1889-1928) HOUSE by his mother, Pauline Agnes (1854-1930) SANDMANN HOUSE when he was born in Albury, NSW. He was born only a couple of months after the tragically early death of his father, James William (1857-1889) HOUSE also in Albury.
Ray was the youngest of 5 children born to Pauline and James (Jim). When his father died in June 1889, he and Pauline had already buried a daughter, Hilda in 1885.


Luckily for me, there is an inscription inside that says “To Ray, From Simon for his 9th birthday” so we know how old the book is but I don’t know who Simon was.
I don’t know how long Pauline remained in Albury after the death of her husband but she was still there in 1891 as she appears in the 1891 NSW census. After that, I lost track of her till 1898 when she started advertising her new business, a Confectionery and Fruit shop in the Corowa Free Press. I wrote about her 13 years in business in Corowa in this post. This town was just upriver from Albury but she never returned to Albury as far as I can see. She and most of her 4 children remained in Corowa till 1911; after that from following her on electoral rolls and directories, I believe she spent the rest of her life in Melbourne.
I believe that Ray’s 11th birthday took place in Corowa and certainly, I recognise some of the surnames in his birthday book as being from Corowa. I really admire the courage of my great grandmother, Pauline.


Ray has obviously written most of the names himself but a few are quite unique, so I think that he asked some people to sign their own names including Hugh FRASER, David B HAIG (a brother in law who married his sister, Clarice in 1910) and his eldest brother, Percy (1878-1938).


RAYMOND’s FAMILY






In 1916, Ray married my grandmother, Alma (1894-1972) Margaret LENNON (known to me as Nana) in North Fitzroy and so from then, the birthday book contains the birthdays of our LENNON family.





Ray’s other sister in law, Elsie (1891-1986) LENNON who was also an older sister to his wife, Alma.
I’ve often wondered how Ray’s mother, Pauline Agnes SANDMANN HOUSE managed after her husband died in 1889 while she was about 6 months pregnant with Ray. By then, she had 3 older surviving children and presumably, no income. There was also no social security available then.
She was still in Albury in 1891 according to the 1891 NSW Census. She said there were 1 male and 3 females in the house so either Percy who was 13 years by then, was away working or baby Raymond was in Melbourne with one of Pauline’s family.

From James’ will and probate, I can see she inherited 800 pounds which may have been savings and/or real estate they had. We don’t know if they owned their home, Epping Villa in George St. but Pauline was still there in 1891 as mentioned above.
So my theory is that Pauline left Albury sometime after the birth of Ray and death of his father for the support of her mother and half sister who had moved to Carlton from the TOPP farm after 1893 when her stepfather had died. Her mother, Maria Dorothea SCHULTZ SANDMANN TOPP would have understood the difficulties she faced as she herself was widowed when Pauline was 6 years old and left with 5 children. Her solution was to marry Johann TOPP and have 4 more children while Pauline never remarried. In summary, Pauline seems to have stayed in Albury for a few years, moved to Carlton to be near her mother and half sister and then in 1898 bought a business in Corowa with her son, Percy. See my evidence for this theory below.

The fact that she mentions in this ad that she was from Carlton and Albury suggests she was in business in Carlton before going to Corowa, which is upriver from Albury. Presumably she sold the house in Albury if it was hers to sell.
That mention of Carlton is interesting as I have read in our family history book, The Wellersdorf Migration: A History of the SCHULTZ, SANDMANN and TOPP families that Ray’s aunt, Maria Elizabeth TOPP MOTTON and his grandmother, Maria Dorothea SCHULTZ SANDMANN TOPP moved from the TOPP family farm in Warragul, Victoria after 1893 when their husband and father died. They moved to Carlton where Maria Elizabeth used her training as a dressmaker (she trained in Fitzroy in as a dressmaker) to support them. I found the following gem in the Wellersdorf book recorded in 1947 by Phillip Richardson.


Ray was definitely with his mother in Corowa in 1900 as he was listed as winning a Sunday School prize in Sixth class in that year. So that matches with the date on this book.

Ray recorded the names of his mother’s sister and his aunt Emma SANDMANN as Mrs Glover and his mother’s half sister, Maria Elizabeth TOPP and his aunt as Mrs G. MOTTON. Maria married George MOTTON in Poowong, Victoria in 1897. For younger readers in those days and right up to the 1960’s, married women were addressed by their husband’s name, not their own. Even when I married in the 1960’s, mail would be addressed to me as Mrs. R. Gay when my initial is “J”. Hard to believe and I think I was among the first to always use my own initial when I could.

It’s interesting now to look back at the list of Pauline’s sisters and brothers to realise that only 2 of her 9 siblings and half siblings are listed by Ray in his birthday book which leads me to wonder if they didn’t or weren’t able to offer support to her.
What I haven’t considered before was if any of the HOUSE family living in Albury and Wodonga helped Pauline in those terrible months after her husband died and after Ray was born. On his wedding certificate in 1877, James said his parents were Charles and Ann HOUSE but they were actually his grandparents. His birth certificate and his entry in the Baptism register didn’t name his father. His birth mother, Jane HOUSE SINNETT was living over the river in Wodonga with her family of 10 children. James wasn’t listed on her death certificate like the other children she had with her husband, James SINNETT. He was born before that marriage. So I don’t think he had a relationship with her but we’ll never know. There is no evidence of the HOUSE family in his birthday book. His grandparents, Charles and Ann HOUSE who presumably brought him up died in 1884 and 1888 so were gone by the time he was born.
Jane came from Drayton in Somerset to Sydney in 1885 with her parents and 4 younger siblings; 3 of those were still alive when Ray was young but their names don’t appear in this birthday book so they can’t have been in his life.
I’ve attended 2 reunions of the SCHULTZ family in Victoria in 1999 and 2012 and have the amazing family history book called The Wellersdorf Migration; The story of the SCHULTZ, SANDMANN and TOPP families compiled by some amazing family historians in Victorian. At the first reunion, I met a couple of the older members who had a vague memory of Ray being with the extended family during his childhood but they didn’t remember any details.
This is a list of all the names and dates that Ray collected in his birthday book. You may be descended from some of these people and if so, I would love to hear from you at geniejen3@gmail.com.













































































































































































































































































