Fix documentation for shmem_startup_hook.

Fix documentation for shmem_startup_hook.

This section claims that each backend executes the
shmem_startup_hook shortly after attaching to shared memory, which
is true for EXEC_BACKEND builds, but not for others.  This commit
adds this important detail.

Oversight in commit 964152c476.

Reported-by: Sami Imseih <[email protected]>
Reviewed-by: Sami Imseih <[email protected]>
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CAA5RZ0vEGT1eigGbVt604LkXP6mUPMwPMxQoRCbFny44w%2B9EUQ%40mail.gmail.com
Backpatch-through: 17