Smorgasbord Blog Magazine – #Life #Aging – As We Age – Use It or Lose It – Part 2 – Brain Health by D. G. Kaye | Smorgasbord Blog Magazine

Welcome back to my latest post in my – As We Age series. In this article, I’m going to speak about methods for taking care of our brains to help in keeping them sharp and active.

This post is in no way speaking of dementia, Alzheimer’s or any other brain related disease, but focused on plain old aging and how to stay on top of our brain health.

I remember reading something long ago about associating something to someone to help remember people’s names we’ve briefly been introduced to. I admit to being the worst at that sometimes. I know I have a bad habit of forgetting someone’s name I was formerly introduced to because if I’ve sized up the person and had no interest in what they had to say, for me it’s out of sight out of mind. But sometimes it also happens that if I met someone and we chimed, and I meet them again, their name may still be stuck on the tip of my tongue, yet I know the face. If I can’t recall their name, I have no issues telling them politely, “I’m sorry I know we’ve met, but for the life of me, I can’t remember your name.” Plain old honesty works.

How to associate a name with a person you’ve briefly met: You can make up a rhyme for that person or add a name to their name in your head associated with something or someone who relates to their name. If you can remember a person by face only, try making up a rhyme in your head with something they do or enjoy. – Mike the bike (if you met biking), Carrie the shoes girl.

Another good idea to help remember where we put something down, is to make a mental and conscious note the moment we set something down. This is why it’s best to have a place for our items we use regularly. For example, every time I go out, my keys are on the credenza in my front hall. After putting on coat and shoes, I grab them and go, never having to look for my keys, because I always set them down first as soon as I come home – in the same place! Conscious effort, familiarity.

It’s also not difficult to misplace our glasses and/or phones. I do this stupidity at least a few times a week where I unconsciously put down my phone wherever I may have ended a phone call. Thank goodness for my landline because I use it to call my cell phone to listen for the ring. As far as glasses go, they can be left anywhere – often I’ll find them somewhere under the covers in my bed after passing out reading. Other times, I have to search a bit – thankfully while wearing another pair of glasses!

Another peeve of mine is my ability to forget what I was saying midway through a conversation. I find this happens when people interrupt what I’m saying – and the rest gets lost. Oh yes, it does come back eventually, but often too late to finish what I was saying. My friends have a habit of interjecting with questions while I’m telling them something. To help alleviate this blank moment of word stuck I preface a conversation or story with – “Okay, let me tell you the details and please don’t interrupt until I’m finished because YOU KNOW I will lose my train of thought.” It works mostly, but human curiosity sometimes can’t wait to interject.

It’s important that we challenge ourselves with doing things that we enjoy to keep the engines running smooth. Keeping sharp in our later years requires a good combination of various activities – Cognitive challenges, activities to keep us mobile, and another important component – social interaction. Mind and body go hand-in-hand when it comes to keeping brains sharp. Under that umbrella also comes proper nutrition and supplementation. If the body isn’t fed well, it affects both, our minds and bodies, causing brain fog and low energy. Keeping busy is the name of the game . . .

Please hop over to Sally’s blog to read the conclusion and my tips for keeping busy.

©DGKaye2026

Source: Smorgasbord Blog Magazine – #Life #Aging – As We Age – Use It or Lose It – Part 2 – Brain Heath by D. G. Kaye | Smorgasbord Blog Magazine

Smorgasbord Blog Magazine – New Series 2026 – Introduction – As We Age by D.G. Kaye | Smorgasbord Blog Magazine

I’m running a new series over at Sally Cronin’s Smorgasbord Blog Magazine now titled As We Age. Today I’m sharing my introductory post for the series.

Welcome to my new series here at Sally’s Smorgasbord Invitation. This year the topic for my series is – As We Age. I thought it may be fun to acknowledge some of the things that change with us and time, and perhaps offer some ideas to keep us functioning well, as well as some ideas to help overcome some of things we may not have taken a shining to.

In this series I’m going to talk about some of the mundane things that we may have taken for granted or maybe paid not much mind to as we age – things that may not exactly keep up with us, and some of the wonders of aging that sneak up on and surprise us. And what we can do to up our game about such issues.

From exercises to keeping up with challenging our brain health, to hair loss – and even hair gain! To appetite changes (and why), new allergies, and vision changes, to finding our best paths through life that help to make us feel better and comfortable along the way. These are just some of the changes we may be feeling and trying to adapt to as we enter some of our later milestone decades.

Things change. Our tastes change, our tolerances change, even some of the people in our life circles change, whether due to circumstance or choices. We all change through time and so do our wants and needs, and we definitely become aware that some new health issues will come along for the ride.

We can’t stop the odd black hair from popping out in a strange place on our face or body, we can’t stop balding, we may not be able to eat some of the foods we used to eat, be it for changed preferences or teeth issues, but we all have the power to adapt and change to fit these new situations we may not have invited into our lives, and we can certainly find ways to adapt to them on our own terms.

As we age, we don’t always notice some of the changes that happen to us until we put them to the challenge. We may notice that we can no longer run as fast as we can without hurting ourselves, or perhaps that part in our hairline begins to look a bit too prevalent, but in lieu of such a gift, we may have gained a few chin hairs in a stunning new shade of black. Have you noticed your appetite changing through the years? I know for certain I’m a more picky, and sometimes even a poor eater. Not that I was ever one with a big appetite, but I never used to leave any food on the plate, I always did my best to finish what I’d put on my plate, and if I didn’t, I knew I had a husband with a grand appetite who’d always make sure everything on my plate was eaten, even if it was by him. I no longer have my human garburator, so I’m careful not to cook too much that will go to waste because of the price of food.

But not everything is doom and gloom. As we age into the next phase of our lives, there are some good things along the way…They say our brains may slow down, but how about our acquired emotional intelligence and our vocabularies and our ability to better assess life situations? Surely, experience has taught us things. Yes, our collagen production slows down, making our laugh lines and surprised looks more prominent on our faces, and maybe time does speed up for us, or is it really an illusion? Whatever we begin to feel, and experience, comes with time and a lifetime of lived experience. We don’t get that stuff when we’re young, we’ve earned it all.

Please hop over to Sally’s blog to read the conclusion.

©DGKaye2026

Source: Smorgasbord Blog Magazine – New Series 2026 – Introduction – As We Age by D.G. Kaye | Smorgasbord Blog Magazine