Smorgasbord Blog Magazine – #Sunshine #Vitamin D #Sunscreen #Skincancer – Safety and Awareness: Sun Protection by D. G. Kaye | Smorgasbord Blog Magazine

Today I’m sharing my post from Sally Cronin’s Smorgasbord blog, in my Safety and Awareness series. The topic is Sun Safety.

Safety and Awareness: Sun Protection

Welcome back to my Safety and Awareness series here at Sally’s Smorgasbord. In this post I’m going to talk about the sun, the importance of taking in some, and the best ways to stay protected from too much.

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We all love the sun. The sun turns grey days into brighter days and offers so many benefits. But, like most things in life, moderation is key to avoid consequences.

One of the most important benefits from taking in some sunshine is the benefit of absorbing natural Vitamin D from the sun’s rays. If you live in a country that offers harsh, cold winters, like where I live, here in cold Canada where three out of four seasons, we wear coats, the sun offers sparsely enough dose of the vitamin, so I must supplement for much of the year.

Did you know we can take in roughly 10,000 to 25,000 international units of Vitamin D for fair skinned people, just from being outside for ten to thirty minutes, just a few days a week in the summer, without sunscreen? And apparently, it takes a bit longer for darker skins to get enough of the Vitamin D from the sun.

Yes, I did just say that – without sunscreen. Sunscreen is very important to wear for longer periods in the sunshine, but did you know that by wearing sunscreen we are also blocking most of the Vitamin D from penetrating through our skin? Studies suggest that when completely covered by sunscreen we can only obtain approximately 2% of our daily required Vitamin D, and that isn’t much. Hence, a shorter time outside to reap the vitamin benefits, but any longer, don’t forget to apply the sunscreen.

Sun Protection:

If you spend a lot of time outdoors in the sun, it’s important to wear protective sun protocols, and to include sunscreen. There are numerous articles of UV protective sunblock clothing available, and plenty of styles to suit everyone’s tastes. I have noticed on my winter escapes that many more are wearing protective, long-sleeved sun shirts, even in the pool. Almost all the babies and young ones are also adorned in protective jump suits or water-shirts, and hats.

Everyone loves the sunshine. But not everyone protects themselves properly when out in it for a lengthy period. I know I shake my head when I’m in Mexico and see quite a few bald men in the pool for hours without a hat on. Ouch!! They look like open targets for problems ahead. But with my observations, I notice that most people do wear hats and sunscreen.

Just as in the hot days of summer, one can easily get burned if out for any length of time in any season. Winter, in particular, for those of you who are ski bunnies, it’s essential to wear sunscreen on your face as well, mostly because the sun’s reflection off the snow.

Does anyone remember when we were kids playing outside or at the beach and we’d get sunburns and blisters? Ya, those incidents where we do damage to our skin, usually show their repercussions as we age. For example, I am a dedicated sunscreen user. My husband was not, until he met me. Once he was in my life he learned the rules of living in health. I always slathered him in sunscreen when we traveled, and every day he went to work. And he’d never be in sun again without a hat. That included when he went to work and spent a good deal of time outside through the seasons, on the car lot. He always wore a hat. But guess what? Through our years together we visited the dermatologist annually, sometimes twice a year. He had countless removals of what could have grown into full blown melanoma, removed through the years.

At first, I was shocked by how many times he needed a removal of something new forming – usually on his face or head and I questioned the doctor as to why he had so many growths when I took such good care of him. She told me that people don’t realize that it is the PAST damage that takes years to become troublesome. . . Please continue to the conclusion at Sally’s Smorgasbord.

©DGKaye2025

Source: Smorgasbord Blog Magazine – #Sunshine #Vitamin D #Sunscreen #Skincancer – Safety and Awareness: Sun Protection by D. G. Kaye | Smorgasbord Blog Magazine

Sunday Book Review – Embracing the Power to Live by Marsha Ingrao – #Poetry, #Memoir

Welcome to my Sunday Book Review. Today I’m happy to review Marsha Ingrao’s book – Embracing the Power to Live.

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Embracing the Power to Live is a poetic journey of a woman’s perseverance despite life’s hard knocks. This collection taps into the true spirit of poetry—reaching ordinary people with the message that they are enough. Some poems hold profound meaning. Others are included simply for the fun of playing with words – a joy reborn when she stepped into the world of syllabic poetry.
Told by different authority figures in her life that she would never marry or achieve her dreams, the author defied the discouraging voices. Her poetry shatters shame uplifts the spirit, and encourages readers to embrace the strength to do the same.
This collection isn’t a self-help guidebook—it’s an invitation to laugh, weep, grow, and live together, connecting hearts through poetry. Embracing the Power to Live is for anyone who seeks to rise above a spinning world to gain strength, perspective, and a new beginning.

This was a heartfelt and moving read, evoked through various forms of poetry – limmericks, haiku, free- verse and more, along with photos, structured in an interesting display. Ingrao opens her life in prose in this poetic, memoir-like telling, encompassing some of the author’s challenges and triumphs in life. Her writing is forthright, heartfelt, and even humorous. The author doesn’t hold back from sharing some of the more painful things she endured in life, just as there are passages that bring a smile. Ingrao brings us in with her warmth and genuine style of writing.

The book’s structure is different from most books I’ve read, but once you start reading and follow, we adjust to the pattern of various poetry, while taken in by stories evoked through free verse poetry. The author demonstrates her zest for life, her wounds, and many accomplishments, and most of all, her love to embrace every aspect of her life.

©DGKaye2025

September Writer’s Tips – Updating old Blog Posts, Pricing Books, Quotation Marks, #Amazon, Broken Links, #Keywords, A.I. and Books

Welcome to September’s curated Writer’s Tips. In this edition, Hugh Roberts shares about repurposing old Blog Posts, Deborah Jay in her Self-Publishing series, talks about how to price book accordingly on Amazon, the Kindlepreneur shares how to find best Keywords for our books, and Diana Peach is back with here Punctuation series at the Story Empire, talking about the use of Quotations, and Sue Coletta, Nicholas Rossis shares about A.I. in books and social media, also at the Story Empire talks about cleaning up broken links on our Blogs.

https://kindlepreneur.com/how-to-see-another-books-keywords

©DGKaye2025

Sunday Book Review – Dave Barry’s Book of Bad Songs by Dave Barry

Welcome to my Sunday Book Review. Today I’m reviewing a fun book that gave me many chuckles, Dave Barry’s Book of Bad Songs.

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The humorist asked his readers to share their least favorite tunes and chronicles the hilarious responses.

When funnyman Dave Barry asked readers about their least favorite tunes, he thought he was penning just another installment of his weekly syndicated humor column. But the witty writer was flabbergasted by the response when over 10,000 readers voted. “I have never written a column that got a bigger response than the one announcing the Bad Song Survey,” Barry wrote.


Based on the results of the survey, Dave Barry’s Book of Bad Songs is a compilation of some of the worst songs ever written. Dave Barry fans will relish his quirky take. Music buffs too will appreciate this humorous stroll through the world’s worst lyrics. The only thing wrong with this book is that readers will find themselves unable to stop mentally singing the greatest hits of Gary Puckett.

This was a hilarious romp of a read that kept me smiling throughout. Barry is a humorist with the New York Times and wrote this book after responses he received from his readers, voting worst songs.

Barry dissects many lyrics from many songs in this hilarious read through – what were some people thinking? If we are of a ‘certain’ age, we can all relate to some of the nonsensical songs created back when – some one-hit wonders and, be warned, many a song that may stick in your head and play on long after you don’t want them in your head anymore. I literally laughed at some of the comments – one person said this book was better than Prozac for a lift. I can’t say; I’ve ever taken Prozac, but I can definitely say that if you’re looking for some fun distraction in this book about songs, and you’re familiar with songs of the 70s, I highly recommend.

©DGKaye 2025

Wasp

I dodged them all August as soon as their season opened. Until the outdoor recycling bins had a swarm and somehow one found its way into my car after stopping there on my way to a lunch date with friends.

Imagine being in the car and pulling out into traffic, sitting idle at two red lights to cross an intersection, when a wasp flies right in front of your face.

I began swatting away at it as I panicked, while starting to drive and opening all four windows hoping the breeze would pull him back outside. But no. Not until it stung/bit me, was it satisfied. Not once, but twice in the same arm, the killer wasp bore holes in my arm, and it only took moments before my arm began ballooning up. I’m allergic to them. I’m not anaphylactic , but my body rebels their venom.

From armpit to wrist it grew

The immediate burn from both bites felt like my arm had been dipped in flames. I had to stop immediately at a pharmacy for some quick relief. The welts were considerably huge within minutes. I spoke with the pharmacist and he said as long as I’m not anaphylactic, just put Calamine lotion or cortisone cream on it. Ya, thanks.

As red as it is, is as itchy as it is

My arm was initially burning like fire for two days, and believe that it’s still red and still itchy as hell today, five days later, but more bearable. I put everything I could on the wounds, took Benadryl and anti-inflammatory meds, used After Bite, cortisone cream, aloe, and Calamine lotion, all with no relief. I’ve also been taking Oregano oil, a natural antibiotic, to make sure to avoid infection. My bitten arm became twice the size of my other arm. Two bites in same arm, one wasp! I had to stay home and keep my arm iced all night long, all day Sunday, through Tuesday night, because I couldn’t be minutes without ice freezing the itch. Meaning I had to cancel gym classes for Monday because my beet red, and throbbing arm. I managed to dodge those buggers all summer and then one gets in my car. Luckily with my swatting distraction, there was no accident.

For those who aren’t aware, wasps aren’t known for leaving their stingers in our skin like bees do. And after being bitten, you can literally see the hole left after chomping through our skin. Because of the open wound we must make sure to wash the wound to avoid letting in natural bacteria to enter and cause infection. By the next day, Sunday, my arm was beet red and spreading down the whole arm. The heat in my arm was like an oven, and the itch felt like creepy crawlers walking around under my skin. I also bathed my arm twice a day and reapplied fresh layers of cortisone cream, Calamine lotion, et al. That cooled my arm for about ten minutes then it was back to my couch, working on finishings of my book before it went to the editor, on ice from Saturday through Tuesday. I’m happy I have three large ice packs in my freezer so I could alternate every two hours.

Monday, it looked so bad I was afraid it may fall off. it couldn’t grow any bigger. I intended to go to a walk-in clinic but I had to get my book to the editor and the hours passed. So I called my pharmacist to ask him about all my symptoms and asked if there was something else that would make the venom go away. He told me to use all the stuff I was already taking. He added that he had a wasp bite last year and it took five days until the inflamed skin settled. Today, finally, the whole red arm has subsided, except the four inch in diameter welts that are still a nice shade of crimson, but I can go on without the ice. So I went to the gym. I was getting cabin fever.

Wasp’s stingers are smooth and they retract, which allows them the freedom to keep stinging. Just great! Not!

For more information on what to do when you’ve been stung and what to look for that may have you visiting the doctor’s office, see the link below:

https://www.health.com/condition/skin-conditions/wasp-sting

Are you allergic to bees and wasps?

©DG Kaye

Sunday Book Review – The Ex-Wives Club by Sally Hepworth – #whodunit?

Welcome to my Sunday Book Review. Today I’m reviewing a short novella by Sally Hepworth – The Ex-Wives Club, where chef and restaurateur, Ian Curley, is found murdered in the kitchen freezer of his own restaurant, and there are a host of suspects.

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When a restaurateur and serial philanderer turns up stone-cold dead, his trio of exes falls under suspicion in a sharp-witted and suspenseful short story by the New York Times bestselling author of Darling Girls.

Celebrity chef Ian Curley is found dead in his walk-in freezer. The prime suspects are his three ex-wives, who meet up every Friday evening in their favorite corner booth of his restaurant. It’s a tradition for Anita, Mary-Jane, and Rosie to drink, dine, and commiserate. But commit murder? All aggrieved, each one has a motive and an alibi. And a brilliant detective has reservations. Who did it? The night will tell.

Sally Hepworth’s The Ex-Wives Club is part of Alibis, a collection of stories about lies, truth, and deception. It’s just a matter of what you can get away with. They can be read or listened to in one sitting.

This was a fun romp to read. Ian Curley, restaurateur, is found dead in his own restaurant freezer, and Detective Li is determined to find whodunit.

Anita, MJ, and Rosie are all ex-wives of Ian Curley, and they all have reasons to hate on Ian, the serial cheater, but they all have alibis. Maybe. They’ve all endured Ian’s philandering and lies and have all become friends since. And let us not omit Emma, Ian’s current wife in process of divorcing him, who shares same opinion of Ian as do the other wives.

Ian’s mysterious death has Detective Li interviewing all the potential suspects, and there are more! As Ian and MJ had two children together, two older teen children of whom Ian didn’t pay enough attention to, Daisy and Max. Then there’s Danny who worked in the kitchen, and Yvette who was undercover, working in the restaurant. Yes, a host of characters in this short 84 page read, that pack a lot of punch. The author did a great job of this storyline in a short span, with quite a few characters, albeit, at times I had to double-back and check things while keeping track of the characters and the red herrings.

The interviews were interesting as each one revealed the connection and their true feelings about Ian. With each person interviewed throughout the story, we think we can knock off another suspect.

This book was a quick-paced, light and fun read as we follow along these interesting characters through their interviews with the detective, keeping us curious and busy piecing stories together in efforts to discover who killed Ian? A very clever ending.

©DGKaye2025

Cover Reveal – About The Real Stages of Grief: A Journey Through Loss

I can’t believe it, but I’m nearing the finish line with my book – About The Real Stages of Grief: A Journey Through Loss.

Because creating covers is so not my thing, I was grateful to have my friend and author, Cheryl Spears from Whiskers and Words.blog, create the design for my book cover from the ideas I conveyed to her. I’m always very conscious of what mood my covers evoke, so colors and fonts have to represent the right tone. It’s always important that the cover states what type of genre books are. Readers will get annoyed for misleading them. In my case, my cover also has to denote what type of nonfiction/memoir story it’s about. Is it sad, funny, serious, clinical? A cover should say those things, demonstrated by colors, fonts, sizing, and placing. I ultimately went with a font that just hit me, after scrolling fonts for lengthy times. I felt it looked serious, but not heavy, not funny. Do you get the feel by the cover?

I also look at how the cover looks in thumbnail size so I can make sure the title can still be seen in a small sized image.

So, I’m back in the publishing saddle again, it seems. I’m in last round revisions before I send my MS to my editor next weekend. And over the moon that friend and author, Diana Peach, has most generously offered to create a book trailer for me. How lucky can a girl get? Stay tuned for that!

That all said, I’m happy to share my new cover here today:

The truth about grief. There are many books written about grief—both the clinical, and stories of ordinary people’s journeys through grief. In my own search for solace when faced with my own loss of my beloved husband, I turned to many grief groups and forums seeking some sense of comfort. What I discovered was there are so many of us who experience the same symptoms and side-effects of grief—things we don’t often read about in books because most don’t wish to talk about.

There are no set number of stages when it comes to grieving. There are many stages, and many of those stages we will not just pass through once but repeat randomly throughout the rest of our lives. Why? Because love never dies, and so neither does the weight of grief after loss disappear. In each of our own individual timelines we’ll learn to carry it with us at our own pace, but the road until we get there is a thumping and bumpy one.

This book is about grief and its many faces, common stages grievers experience, as well as the changes that occur with us after going through something that alters our lives, adding my own endurance through the grieving process. It’s about the aftermath of what happens to those of us left behind.

We will all one day experience this heart-wrenching journey of grief. This book may appeal not only to grievers, but for those who have family or friends going through this process, helping to understand what grievers endure, and for those interested in learning what one can expect after loss of a loved one.

©DGKaye2025

Sunday Book Review – The First Witch of Boston: A Novel by Andrea Catalano #HistoricalFiction

Welcome to my Sunday Book Review. Today I’m reviewing an engaging book, based on a true story about the first woman to be found guilty of witchcraft in the 17th century, in Massachusetts.

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Massachusetts Bay Colony, 1646. Thomas and Margaret Jones arrive from England to build a life in the New World. Though of differing temperaments, cautious Thomas and fiery Margaret, a healer, are bound by a love that has lasted decades. With a child on the way, their new beginning promises only blessings.

But in this austere Puritan community, comely faces hide malicious intent. Wrong moves or words are met with suspicion, and Margaret’s bold and unguarded nature draws scorn. Soon, Margaret is mistrusted as more cunning woman than kind caregiver. And when personal tragedies, religious hysteria, and wariness of the unknown turn most against her, even the devotion Margaret and her husband share is at risk.

Inspired by actual diary entries and court records, The First Witch of Boston is at once the riveting story of a woman unjustly accused and a love story set amid the political and social turmoil of both Old and New England. Harrowing, and with a deep understanding of the human heart, history is brilliantly imagined.

Margaret and Thomas have recently arrived in Massachusetts Bay Colony from England. Thomas is a carpenter and Margaret is a midwife, healer, and apothecarist. They worship in a Puritan church, because that’s what the people do there, but they aren’t religious. Margaret is compassionate, witty, and challenges the Puritan patriarchy, much to her own chagrin. She has to be careful with her healing hands and remedies – to not be taken for a witch.

Maggie is gifted. She can sense ailments people have before they even know. But Maggie’s helping people is starting to stir looks and conversations from the Puritan society they are living in. Thomas loves his wife very much and worries about her free style and sometimes too forthright personality. He worries about how she’ll be received in society for her not to be taken as a witch, as was the times when a woman had the ‘gift’ of inner knowing, she was to be considered a witch.

Maggie and Thomas have been together for quite a few years and until now haven’t been able to conceive or carry a baby. But Maggie once again gets pregnant and just knows this time she will carry to term, and she gives birth to a ‘gifted’ daughter, Bess. But paradise doesn’t last long. And are there others who may have such gift, but used for evil? Enter the Widow Hallet who has her eyes cast on Thomas, despite him being married to Maggie, and just a simple visit by Hallet to his wife Maggie, and the widow touching baby Bess’s forehead, portends doom for the Jones family.

As Maggie’s healing properties help the many citizens who come to her for relief, someone begins spreading rumors that land Maggie in jail for witchcraft and trial. As Thomas tries to get the town governor who Maggie helped plenty, to defend her, the die is already cast. And Maggie’s witch trial becomes unjustly with spewed lies throughout the court as Maggie continues to defy their lies, shamelessly outspoken, knowing she has nothing more to lose.

I found this story gripping. The author has created wonderfully deep and loving characters with Maggie and Thomas. Their love was strong and dedicated despite what the world was throwing at them. A true love story of relentless and dutiful love where two kind souls were definitely born at the wrong time of history.

©DGKaye2025