The Waiting Room

No book review today.

A lifetime of laughter and stories

Swirling in my head

Forty-six years to be exact.

Linked by hearts and souls

That’s us

Me and my best friend Sanja.

Even the miles between us

couldn’t separate us

Now I sit idle and once again numb

repeating prayers

Lighting candles

Begging God to bring a miracle

Petrified of the next phone call.

I got the call

God didn’t give me enough grief and loss

So he took my best friend too.

I have no more words today.

©DGKaye July 26, 2025

The second worst day of my life.

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#WordPress Prompt – Quotes – Do You Live by Any Quotes?

I decided to jump onto a WordPress prompt today. What quotes do I live by?

Daily writing prompt
Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often?

The universe always brings us to where we need to be when the time is right

Focus on what you want and not what you don’t want because we manifest what we focus on

One day at a time is how I function

Take a deep breath and slowly exhale counting to ten – to relieve stress, and give you a moment of pause

But one saying has stuck with me since childhood – ‘Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.’

Despite the grief I carry and live with every moment since I lost my beloved husband, outwardly, I always carry a happy disposition and wear a smile. Nobody would know how many taped up pieces I carry in my heart, except those close to me. I am friendly, always happy to help someone in need and make someone’s day with a kind gesture. But if you cross me, I am that tit for tat person. I will happily give back what I receive. If it’s kindness, you’ll get that back from me in spades; if it’s ugliness, that too will be repaid. I suppose it’s because if I feel I’ve been kind and giving of myself to someone and they betray me, the mistrust becomes a permanent wedge. Kind of like how my own family betrayed me when my husband died. They abandoned me in my time of need, and so, I wrote them off. There is no going back for me. Ever. But that doesn’t mean I don’t wish them well and to be well, only that I no longer allow anyone’s toxicity in my life circles or life.

I am not a confrontational person by nature. But I have no problem calling out injustice loudly when I encounter it. As a Gemini, my other side is silence. I’m not a fighter, more of an advocate, but cross me with betrayal and I will silently slither completely out of your orbit, never to return.

And then there is my favorite:

What about you blogging friends? Do you have any favorite quotes?

©DGKaye2025

Sunday Book Review – The Italian Daughter: An absolutely unputdownable and stunning page-turner by Soraya Lane

Welcome to my Sunday Book Review for The Italian Daughter by Soraya Lane. A blend of historical fiction, mystery, and contemporary romance – a story written in two timelines: present starting off in London and Italy, and 1930s/ 40s Italy. There are seven standalone books in this series, each about a different daughter in a different country, all part of the Lost Daughter series. In this book, it begins with Lily receiving a box that was given to her paternal grandmother when she was a baby. Now Lily receives the box after her grandmother’s death chasing down an adoption that happened in the 40s at a home for unwed mothers and the lineage of one woman whos heritage ran through two families.

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Italy, 1946. “Estee, I bought this ring years ago and have kept it safe ever since. You’re the only woman I’ve ever loved.” She reached for Felix’s hand and gently closed it over the box. “No,” she whispered. “I want you to propose only when you’re truly free.”

London, present day: Lily clutches a faded piece of paper in her hands, knowing that her life will never be the same again. Whilst grieving for her late father, she is told that her grandmother was born at Hope’s House, a home for unmarried mothers, the only clues to her past contained on a handwritten Italian recipe and an old theatre programme.

Desperate for answers, Lily accepts a job on an Italian vineyard in the heart of picturesque Como – a dream her father once shared. Arriving at the palatial home of the Martinelli family, Lily is captivated by the acres of vines that surround her and instantly feels at home. She is also struck by their charming son Antonio and as they chat long into the night over a candlelit dinner, he offers to help Lily discover her family’s heritage.

As Lily unravels the truth of her own legacy, she begins to fall more in love with Italy and with Antonio. And tracing the recipe back to a bakery in a hilltop village, she soon unearths a tragic love story that changes everything…

But when Lily discovers who her grandmother really was, can she too have the courage to follow her heart and leave her old life behind? Or will her family’s heart-wrenching story force her home?

An utterly enchanting and heartbreaking novel about lost loves, family secrets and enduring hope. Perfect for fans of Santa Montefiore, Lucinda Riley and Victoria Hislop.

This novel can be enjoyed as a standalone.

This story is written in two timelines – present London and Italy, and 1930s and 40s Italy. Presently, it begins with Lily in London about to claim an envelope with contents of what was left to her paternal grandmother, learning she was placed in an orphanage as a baby. Lily and her father shared a dream about owning a vineyard in Italy and is about to venture out to a vineyard in Como, Italy to work as an assistant to honor her heritage from her father. Now the mission becomes twofold. While there, Lily begins to investigate and unfurl secrets of her paternal grandmother’s real heritage when she learns about the adoption of her grandmother as the clues left in a box was a torn piece of a program from La Scala in Milan, and a recipe.

Back in 1937 Italy, we’ll learn about Estee, a young teen girl who is raised and groomed solely to become a famous ballerina, who ultimately becomes a Prima ballerina who performed at La Scala in Milan. But young Estee serendipituously meets Felix who comes from a family who owns a bakery, and he steals her heart, but he is promised to another since birth. But their love becomes undeniable and some years later, Felix returns to Milan to find Estee and declares he wants to marry her. There becomes lots of family drama as Felix is promised to somebody else. But he vows to Estee that he is leaving his family behind and asked to give him some time to sort his affairs.

Now in Italy, Lily and the vintner’s son Antonio, fall in love spend much time together, both on the vineyard, and in Milan as Antonio tries to help her solve her grandmother’s heritage. They are both very cautious about falling in love because they’ve both had their hearts broken before. But love is love.

All Lily has to go on is that dessert recipe on a torn piece of paper and that program for the ballet at La Scala from the 1940s. When Antonio takes her on a roadtrip to Milan, their journey begins in La Scala then leads to a bakery on their mission to discover where this recipe originated from. And finally Lily finds the family who owned that recipe and discovers nobody outside family has ever had the recipe. Once she meets the family, Lily discovers exactly where her grandmother and father fit in with that family, and ultimately, herself too. Lily is overwhelmed by how her life has changed coming to Italy, finding romance, a job on a vineyard, and her unknown family. And they fill her in on what transpired through the generations.

This was a beautifully written book with lots of little subplots and beautifully descript locales, and some beautifully written tender moments, adding great mystery to the story as well as romance – one contemporary and the other Romeo and Juliette-esque with star-crossed lovers – Estee and Felix. The suspense of journey to discovering who Lily’s grandmother really was kept me turning the pages, waiting to find out the connection between La Scala and Lily’s grandmother, all the while absorbed in two different romances from two different eras. This was a wonderful blending of past and present and how well these characters – four generations, melded together. Despite a few tissues for the heartbreak parts, it was fun trying to figure out the lineage and relationships and how they connected through the decades. No doubts I’ll be reading more stories from this author. Many reviews stated ‘unputdownable’. I would have to agree.

©DGKaye2025

Writer’s Tips – July Edition – #Blogging, Show Don’t Tell, Copyrights, Publishing on Amazon

Welcome to my curated July Writer’s Tips. In this edition, Hugh Roberts asks – do you know who’s following your blog? Beem Weeks at the Story Empire breaking down Show Don’t Tell, Jacqui Murray shares what you need to know about copyrights and using public images, and Deborah Jay shares Part 9 of her Self-Publishing series on Amazon.

©DGKaye2025

Sunday Book Review – Gratitude and No Fairy Tale: Just Her Poetry book 3 by D.L. Finn #poetry

Welcome to my Sunday Book Review. Today I’m reviewing D.L. Finn’s newest release – Gratitude & No Fairy Tale. This is book 3 in Denise’s Just Her Poetry series where she shares poetry and verse of herself and nature, accompanied with soothing images.

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Explore D. L. Finn’s poetic journey, from her newest to earliest works. Part One immerses you in a combination of her photography and symbolic poems. Peaceful winter days, forests, and sunsets illuminate her search for the magic of life. Part Two retraces her journey from her first poems. Her life is revealed through free verse poems and photographs that were featured in her memoir, No Fairy Tale. She discovers gratitude on her path to happiness. Join her as she explores her reality through emotions and nature in this special collection.

In this book, Finn shares a touching selection of Haiku and poetic verses, many with images of serenity accompanying the poetry. The author has also shared some of her earlier works, revised from an earlier memoir. Unabashedly, Finn shares from her heart some of the incidence she experienced growing through life through her heartfelt telling. We can learn her strength as her tales take us from childhood through adolescence.

The Rock – A poem about strength; beaten down, yet stands awaiting to breathe freely again. Waterfall – spoken in nature’s language sharing many contemplations and metaphors with hidden translations about the choices we make in life. Casting it Out – a poem about emotional pain told through a fishing story. I really enjoyed Hello – Trying to connect through a busy life schedule to fit in some living as life passes by. The Pill – a melancholy awareness about meds numbing more than just pain. Suicide Song – a poignant telling of a troubled teen and second chances.

We Were Close – is a poem that touched a chord with me. It resonated with my own relationship with my mother. The poem begins: “We were close, but we weren’t. You knew me, but you didn’t . . .” The poem ends with: “If only we knew how to love while we’re living, instead of waiting for our last breath to figure that out, we could be close now.”

Hurry – takes us into a family scene where the kids are eating breakfast and hurried off to school with hustle and bustle and looking back on how trivial rushing can be. I also enjoyed Reader – thoughts from a writer about readers of our work. Lump – the anxiety of waiting for a diagnosis. And, Stuff – a wonderful telling about the things we accumulate in life, and learning to let go.

At the end of this book, the author talks about her younger life and why she’d written some of these poems, such as Suicide Song. This book is written with poignant verses. If you enjoy reading about feelings, fears, life, nature, and growth, you are sure to enjoy Gratitude and No Fairy Tale.

©DGKaye2025

Smorgasbord Blog Magazine – Health and Safety – Safety Awareness Travel – Part 2 – #Money #ATMs #Scams #Pickpockets by D.G. Kaye | Smorgasbord Blog Magazine

In case you missed my Part 2 of my Travel and Safety Awareness post at Sally Cronin’s Smorgasbord Blog Magazine, I’m sharing here today. #travelsafe

Welcome back to my Safety and Awareness series, Part 2 Travel Safety. In this part I’m talking about vacation and at home protocol to help stay safe.

Safety and Awareness

Before I get to what to do and what not to do while on holiday, I first want to mention another precaution to take before you head off for your trip. Always be sure to photocopy your passport and keep that copy somewhere else other than with your passport. I keep a copy in my carryon bag. This is for just in case we lose our passports. It can help speed things along by having a copy if lost. It’s also important to have for proof of passport at any places in our travels that may require them. It’s like having a temporary backup. I keep my copy with my other travel papers such as: health insurance, hotel reservations and airline boarding passes. I like to have paper backups for everything. Digital isn’t always reliable.

As an aside here, I also don’t turn my phone on in foreign countries until I’ve visited a phone store and purchased a SIM card to switch with mine while out of country. Our mobile long distance use charges are beyond ridiculous. My phone carrier charges $20 a day!!!!! No thanks. When I go to Mexico every winter, I use my Whatsapp to hook onto wifi until I can get to a phone store and purchase a Mexican Sim for $13 Canadian, good for a month!

Bank Machine Bewares

There are plenty of bank machine scammers around wherever we may travel, or live, for that matter. And I’ll share a few scams to be cautious of. First, always make sure the machine looks intact. Meaning, no weird plate doubled on top of where we slide in our bank cards. Yes, this happened to a friend of mine while in Mexico last winter. He went to take out funds with his Canadian bank client card, received his pesos, along with the bank printout slip that told him $3,000 was just taken out when he only bought a few hundred Pesos. He spent the better part of the month back and forth between Mexican and Canadian bank correspondence to rectify. When I left, it still wasn’t settled. It seems, some mirrored gadget was somehow affixed to where the credit card slot was.

There are now two popular new bank machine scams going around that I caught on my local news. Popular enough to make news, so I’m sure it’s part of vacation scams, or will be soon. At some machines there is now an option to ‘tap’ the screen to enter your info, instead of sliding your card in a slot. If we use the tap screen option, YOU MUST SIGN OUT after the banking session, or it stays open, just as one would when using a public computer. Yes, you can imagine. Three Canadian residents had thousands of dollars stolen from their accounts because they got their money and left, without signing out. And someone lurks just waiting for people to do this.

Another scam going around in my city is a group effort. It’s a distraction scam. In the video I saw on my news captured from a bank camera, a FIVE people ring set up near bank machine waiting for prey. One bumps into the person as they’re taking back their card. Another asks them a question, while card falls on floor and another acts like they’re helping you, while your banking screen hasn’t been completed, and through the commotion, max allowed cash is drawn out of every account by another.

It is also always imperative to familiarize ourselves with our surroundings when approaching any bank machines. Look for that person who may be standing around scrolling on their phones, doing nothing else, and more similar, watching you. In Mexico, there’s a famous scam going on where someone approaches you at the machine and asks if you’re having trouble, they’re happy to help. NO THANKS!!! Always be diligent. And remember, bank scams are more prevalent while traveling if you use a store’s bank machine instead of going to a bank’s machine. And more than just vulnerability, machines not located at banks will ALWAYS charge you much higher service fees.

Most banks I’ve seen while away usually have a security guard near the door and/or machines. In fact, because of all the scams going on, my bank suggested not to use our bank client cards in foreign machines that can potentially be hacked by scammers to potentially take all our money. But rather, take money out on our credit card instead. This way, if we get scammed. Our credit card carrier can see all the withdrawals and will refund our losses much better and faster than the bank will with a client card.

Another important tip for women. Always beware of your purse. Never hang it on the back of a chair when out in a restaurant or anywhere in public. That’s a pickpocket’s dream to watch us enjoying an outing while they snatch the purse or wallet. Also to beware that many public toilets have a hook installed inside the door for purses. Often the hooks are badly placed – like close to the top of the door. So easy for a thief to walk by toilet doors and reach over with their hand and snatch. Yes, that was a popular caper going on in Las Vegas, back in the day. So they began putting purse hooks midway down the door.

Always beware when in crowds. I promise you there’s a thief at every destination just waiting for an opportunity. If you take public transportation, it’s essential to beware, especially on crowded trains and buses. These are a pickpocket’s favorite places to hang out. I’ve yet to go to Mexico and not heard a story of someone being robbed on a crowded bus heading downtown. These people are professionals who will look like the average Joe or Jane standing beside us on a packed mode of transportation, so professional, you won’t always know you’ve been had until you find out when you go into your wallets. Both men and women. Another reminder to men and those back pockets!

Hotel and Room Safety

I never stay in a place where they don’t have rooms safes. Once I check in, my passport, wallet and any jewelry I may have brought with me, go directly in the safe. I always carry a 2nd small wallet to keep a card and some local currency on me. If my laptop doesn’t fit in the safe, it stays in my carryon, which I always lock when exiting the hotel. Sadly, in the world we’re living in, trust isn’t there until it’s earned for me. . . please read conclusion at Sally’s blog.

Smorgasbord Blog Magazine – Health and Safety – Safety Awareness Travel – Part 2 – #Money #ATMs #Scams #Pickpockets by D.G. Kaye

Source: Smorgasbord Blog Magazine – Health and Safety – Safety Awareness Travel – Part 2 – #Money #ATMs #Scams #Pickpockets by D.G. Kaye | Smorgasbord Blog Magazine

©DGKaye 2025

Sunday Book Review – Arrhythmia by John Dolan #Poetry #NewRelease

Wecome to my Sunday Book Review. Today I’m sharing my review for John Dolan’s new release – Arrhythmia – poems. I’m a fan of Dolan’s books and his views on life, sometimes cynical or dark, and sometimes humorous.

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This collection of poems explores what it means to be alive. Here you will find desire, love, loss, vexation, mortality, the quest for purpose, and the longing for certainty.
Those familiar with John Dolan’s writings will already be acquainted with his particular brand of humour and his philosophical ruminations – and you will find these liberally scattered through the pages of Arrhythmia.
For existing and new readers alike, welcome to the world of performance poetry: verse to be savoured and to be said out loud.

Dolan states in the preface, “these poems are designed to be read as performance pieces,” out loud. So make sure you aren’t out in public or you may be taken for a lunatic.” Typical Dolan humor.

I’ve enjoyed everything I’ve read from Dolan so far with his novels. His books, no matter how different, all have his satirical humor embedded. This book was yet, something different from Dolan, written mostly in poetic verse, always leaving us with a thought. Several topics are covered in this book, all pertaining to the human condition, life and emotion. Many of these poems are life lessons, and some are stories also leaving an impact. Dolan is an observer of life and shares his observations in his poetry. He claims some of these poems were written long ago. Some written on the heart’s voyage through life, others about broken souls. The collection is sorted on various emotions and observations, all touching on both, the beauty and ugliness of life.

There are many short stories spoken in verse mixed in with some shorter and rhyming poetry. Some of my favs: Desert Errata – Learned advice on how to take life at its best and not sweat the small stuff, A Deflowering of Poppies – A gentle telling of love among war, Let Me Explain – A cruel apology from a cheating husband, Playing A Round Writing – A clever poem using comparisons and similarities between writing and golf, spoken in golf terms. Ballroom Dancing – A tale about various dances and how well – or not – the author dances, apparently, he can cha-cha like a king! Unrequited is a tale about wrong timing in love and missed opportunity.

Where I Live resonated with me – looking behind at uncertain futures, memories difficult to revisit, “I dwell then in the space between the superficial now And the finite possibilities of tomorrow. . .”. Utopia – A sarcastic view, “While the grey matter slides slowly out of sight, permeates the brick, and is gone in the night. So, despondency soaks up the evening…”. Commuter Train Blues – Humorous and satirical observations spoken in poetic verse, not all pretty, but much truth. I Don’t Miss You – A love letter to a past love and what inspired it, “I don’t miss you. Not at all. I’ve moved on and so have you. We’re sensible mature adults. We know the grown up thing to do.” Things that linger after love that forever remind.

Animal Behavior – A warning here of explicit language. It’s a bit crude (as Dolan’s work can sometimes be), it’s dark and sadistic. Dolan flexing his dark muscles here. For those with pure minds may choose to skip this one – or not.

Another of my favs: New Heart – A tale about a man who’d been hurt so many times – “I’ve lived, adored, and cared too much, you see. And all it’s brought me in return is grief . . .,” his ticker was replaced by an experimental artificial one. The man was glad he no longer could feel.

There is much to savor in this book and highly recommend for not just Dolan fans, but anyone who enjoys dissecting life and all it can encompass.

Another of my Favs that touched home for me:

Just Occasionally She Stumbles

Then bewilderment gathers

about her like an enclosing mist.

Her workaday strength dissipates.

The pillars of her certainties grow brittle:

Emotional fractures scurry along their length.

The combined mass of expectation and regret,

Of future and past,

Weighs down heavily on the present.

At such times she hides,

Withdraws herself from the world

And its strident demands.

She takes her heart into a private room,

Studies it, turns it over in her hands.

She scrutinises it for damage done.

Perhaps she cries a little

When she thinks about

The things that were

And the things that might not be.”

©DGKaye2025

Palmistry – the Letter ‘M’ and Crescent Moon

I watch a lot of Youtube videos for my global news and spiritual videos. Suddenly, all these videos kept popping up for me talking about the Mark of the ‘M’ and the Crescent moon position on our palms.

Does everyone have them? I have both, one on each hand. I am one never to understand palmistry other than where the life, head, and heart lines are located. But Youtube suggested a few videos I may like, and I was curious. Of course I looked at my palms and discovered both the M’s on each of my palms, and how each of my hands when side by side, aligned with my pinky fingers, there is a definite half moon, perfectly matched from both hands.

It is said that when the heart, head, and lifeline on our palms align, that for some people they will form an ‘M’ shaped mark on the palm. Those lines in our palms with an ‘M’ and a crescent moon match up of heart lines indicate heightened intuitions, higher emotional intelligence, and great leadership skills. The ‘M’ mark and/or the half moon shaping don’t change through our lifetime either as some other lines change through life. Of course, as in palmistry, tarot, etc., there is no scientific proof. But if you understand spirituality, it’s an honor to have these markings. Of course, if one digs deeper, we’ll begin to find alternate interpretations of these markings.

It is said that these Divine codes equate to no ordinary life – leaders with the Letter M, you are here to break generational curses, those who have the Half moon, you can see truth behind the veil.

Is this a common thing I wondered, especially after reading so many comments under this video below. It is said that only 30% of the world’s population have these marks on their palms. It seemed to be like a reconcilliation or awakening for some, and confirmation for others – like myself.

Just for fun, I will show you my palms:

Oh, and I know for sure you’re looking at your palms. 😅

If you’d like to read more about the various meanings of the letter ‘M’ on the palm, visit Spiritual Essence.

Please share in comments if you have the M or the the Moon on your palms.

©DGKaye2025