Community Loss: The Fur Baby Is Family

A Book Review

King Copper and Jernee Timid (the dog who had globes for eyes); no longer with us, but still are. Photo Credit: Tremaine L. Loadholt

Inspiration comes from all over, and I would be lying if I said I was not inspired by Lauren Scott’s book of poems for her dog, Copper, after reading several of them. I have a few poems for and about Jernee brewing in my soul, and as soon as they’re done simmering and ready to be plated, I will serve them to you.

It is a wondrous thing to know I am not alone. I never thought I was. So many people have lost their pets, are in the process of making the REAL decision of letting them go, and are spending their days grieving a fur baby who is still alive but is experiencing his or her last days. The pain of knowing when it’s time and acting on it is not an easy thing to muddle through, but one thing I kept asking myself regarding Jernee was, “In this state, is she her happiest?” I knew she was not.

After reading King Copper, I did what I do and reviewed it on Amazon and Goodreads.

A Gift for the Mourners of Past Fur Babies

It feels weird to title the review this way, but it’s not a lie. It’s not something that the author (and most likely readers of this book) cannot attest to.

We are mourners of past fur babies. We are grieving. King Copper: Our dog’s life in poetry, is a gift for and to us.

Lauren and her family not only lost a dog but they lost a family member. Their “golden boy” was blessed to spend thirteen years with them. He was impactful to their lives, their growth, their love, and their peace. He had been a pillar in their household and a walking buddy outside of it.

I know this loss. I am living through this loss. After putting my baby girl, Jernee Timid to rest last September, I felt every poem shared on each page.

I wept during a few of them; wiping fresh tears from old eyes. I smiled at the photos. I laughed at Copper’s expression in some of them.

He had been a photogenic boy, and he seemed to have known it. I can tell he not only brightened up their lives, but he enriched them. Judging from his poses, he was a magnet for attention and was given it in well doled-out portions.

The author, Lauren Scott, does a wonderful job keeping the rhythm and flow in sync with the subject matter without being overly sad. However, she did not stray too far away from the meat of the book.

We, as readers, know who the star is and was. From the cover photo, to every photo shared inside the book, we got a chance to observe a glimpse of their lives through his presence.

Even though I had not known Copper, reading about him makes me feel like I’d given him a pat or two, laced his full belly with patterned rubs. I know I would have. I know I would have been happy to as well—if he’d been a part of my life as he was a part of theirs.

I feel like he has met up with Jernee Timid, and the two of them are relaxing on a porch with the sun kissing their faces and the shade moving in periodically with a coolness they can bathe in.

May he continue to rest in peace.

King Copper has captured my heart, too, and I hope he can feel it.

King Copper: Our dog’s life in poetry is full of joyful, reflective, sad, hopeful, and loving poems about a dog whose personality was bigger than his size, and I loved every minute of it. It touched my heart. Perhaps, it will touch yours, too.


No Bunny Hopping Around

A Book Review

Rabbit by Patricia Williams (who just so happens to be an Aries, so finishing her book during Aries Season is so appropriate). Photo Credit: Tremaine L. Loadholt

Every so often, there comes a book that shakes me back to life—lifts me up from the depths of the swollen tongue of a guilt-filled world, and I have to take my time with it. I have to sit with it for a month or two—enjoy every line, every raw and unfiltered phrase, and settle in the cold embrace of the ending.

This book did exactly that. I am happy I gave myself the time necessary to wade through the waters of the free-flowing pages Ms. Pat has to offer in this memoir. She doesn’t just talk about her life; she commits to dishing out the goods of it—straight, no chaser—filled to the brim with moments that’ll make you “Ooh” and “Ahh.”

There had been a ton of side-eye from me given to various people/loved ones in Ms. Pat’s life as she introduced them. MAJOR side-eye. Then, there were others I teared up about—feeling a sense of connectivity that took up space in my heart and remained there. I doubt I’ll evict them anytime soon.

Below is the review I shared on Amazon and Goodreads:

Her Story in Her Own Words

I felt like I was listening to my auntie recall many stories from her life—as though I’d chosen the best spot in my grandmother’s living room to eavesdrop or listen to “Grown Folks’ Business.”

Rabbit: A Memoir is raw, brutally honest, hilarious, sad, and hopeful simultaneously. Everything about this book screams “Started from the bottom, now we’re here”, and I absolutely love that fact about it.

Ms. Pat gives the reader her life, straight—no chaser, and if you’re not prepared to read what she has to say, you’ll soon find out just how much REAL can break you.

She doesn’t beat around the bush, she isn’t saying it politely, she is telling it like it had been for her, and how she managed to come out on top. Not by herself, but with the help, love, encouragement, and belief in her from others.

She had a gift all along, and all she needed was someone to scratch the surface to reveal what that is.

I’m glad someone did. I am glad many people did. Rabbit is a memoir that will shake you back to life after putting you in cardiac arrest. It stings, but it heals, too.

I am not aware of the season you may currently be in regarding your life, but I can tell you this… it needs just a little bit of Ms. Pat in it, and Rabbit is where you’ll find her when you’re ready.

I love a book that blends into the reality of the world and mirrors it back to you without making you feel ashamed or doubtful about positive change. It can happen, and it often does. I thoroughly enjoyed Rabbit, and I look forward to picking it up later in life (should I see many more years ahead), and finding what I haven’t found within the pages this time around.


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cheap thrills

a free verse poem (NaPoWriMo #4)

Cheap Thrills: 3 books I purchased for under $3.00 at my favorite used books store. Photo Credit: Tremaine L. Loadholt

3 for under 3,
scooped up after
eagle-eyeing so many
cheap thrills right
before check-out.

marketing tactics—designed
to stop patrons in
their tracks—”Take a look at me!”
and, I did… stopped and looked
and p i c k e d 3.

my TBR list had been worth
the price of a hefty admission,
now… stakes are higher.

I can’t wait to crack the
spines of these finds—love
them until the goodness of me
topples over into a sea
of m
a
d
n
e
s
s.

my life—temporarily enhanced
by affordable
literature.


What the poem should look like:

A screengrab of the poem’s structure cuz WordPress likes to trip.

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Scattered Words Reviewed by LifesFineWhine

I’m incredibly grateful to and for the people Scattered Words: Poems for Jernee Timid Loadholt is touching. My baby girl’s life was such a testament to my peace, and it makes me happy to know others want to read the poems specifically crafted for her life and death.

Pooja, at LifesFineWhine, shared an in-depth review of the book last night, and I am sharing it here with all of you. Please click the link below to be directed to the full review.

Thank you again, Pooj!


About the author A versatile Southeastern writer, Tremaine L. Loadholt has been published in literary journals, anthologies, and magazines, and has also published four books: Pinwheels and Hula Hoops, Dusting for Fingerprints, A New Kind of Down, and Séduire. She lives with her pleasantly silent Red-Footed Tortoise, Zumi. Her artistic expressions can be found at […]

Scattered Words By Tremaine Loadholt Review

seafood gathering/Whoever you are, thank you…

I took a day trip to Huntserville, NC, to spend some time with my friend and her mom, and her mom treated us to lunch. We went to a spot in Mooresville, NC, called Toucan’s Lakefront Restaurant, and the food almost rivaled Love’s Seafood in Savannah, GA. I enjoyed myself, and it was so lovely to see my friend and her mom again. We had THE BEST time! Photos and Photo Collage Credit: Tremaine L. Loadholt

waded through traffic
the roads to Charlotte—hectic
convoluted mess

skied on express lanes
hovering like flying cars
racing toward love

delicious seafood
restaurant with a bird’s name
seduced my taste buds


To the person who purchased three copies of Scattered Words: Poems for Jernee Timid Loadholt via LSI, thank you! I don’t know who you are, but if you want to let me know, I wouldn’t be opposed to finding out. I appreciate you. Know that. I truly do.

Day-Tripping in Raleigh, North Carolina

Food & Fun the Black Excellence way

Liberation Station was everything I knew it would be! Small, quaint, welcoming, and uplifting. Comfortably located just outside of Downtown Raleigh, NC, this Black-owned, Black-authored children’s bookstore is exactly what I needed to see. Saturday, March 14, 2026. Photo Collage Credit: Tremaine L. Loadholt

Black-owned.
Black-authored.
Children’s bookstore.
A happy spot for the curious mind.
Liberation Station: Raleigh, NC

Glimpses of Flavor Hills in Downtown Raleigh, NC. I had their Hills Fried Catfish Sandwich with Sweet Potato Tots. It was DELICIOUS! Saturday, March 14, 2026. Photo Collage Credit: Tremaine L. Loadholt

Soul Food, down-home cooking.
Colorful.
Inviting.
Soundtrack for the rhythmic.
Flavor Hills: Raleigh, NC


Liberation Station: Liberation Station emerged as more than a bookstore. Every title was read, reviewed, and approved with care—ensuring Black children would encounter stories that honored their humanity.

The vision was clear: representation should be accessible, thoughtful, and affirming.

Flavor Hills: Not content to be just a dining spot, Flavor Hills weaves itself into the fabric of North Carolina’s community. The bonds with local vendors and businesses are genuine and deep-rooted. A prime example is their beer selection, showcasing the offerings of the first women veteran-owned brewery in the state, nestled in Durham. Their cocktail concoctions also bear the stamp of local pride, thanks to the collaboration with the prestigious Walton’s Distillery, a true gem of Onslow County.

In essence, Flavor Hills is a haven where warmth, connection, and the love for quality cuisine converge. It’s an invitation to rediscover the art of savoring life, one bite, laugh, and sip at a time.


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