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339 Days ’til 40: The Masks We Wear

“The most important kind of freedom is to be what you really are. You trade in your reality for a role. You trade in your sense for an act. You give up your ability to feel, and in exchange, put on a mask. There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.” ~Jim Morrison Read the rest of this entry »

Posted by RV in the Redwoods on March 19, 2012 in attitude, Dealing with Difficult People, Health, Hormotional, Inspiration, Interpersonal Relations, Interpersonal Skills, mental health, Relationships, Safety, Self-help

Tags: abuse, acting, balance, health, Living your truth, masks, mental health, quotes, Relationships, self-help, self-image, self-protection, Truth, value

341 Days ’til 40: Rough Relationships – Fight or Flee?

17 Mar

If you are human and if you are an adult than at some point in your life you have probably experienced a rough relationship or a rough spell within a relationship. I am sure you are one of many people to ask yourself whether you should fight to save your relationship or flee. This is an important question to ask yourself. This is a hard question to ask yourself

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Posted by RV in the Redwoods on March 17, 2012 in attitude, Dealing with Difficult People, Health, Inspiration, Interpersonal Relations, Interpersonal Skills, mental health, Parenting, Relationships, Self-esteem, Self-help

Tags: abuse, cheating, Children, Healthy Relationships, Love, marriage, parenting, Relationships, self-esteem, Support, Unhealthy relationships

356 Days ’til 40: Accepting Apologies – Releasing Rage

02 Mar

If you are a person who has lived any remnant of a normal life, people have failed you. When people fail you it can hurt – a lot. Unresolved hurt can become anger and unresolved anger can progress into rage.

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