Happy 1st Birthday Adief Shafiy

Happy Birthday to my beloved son Adief Shafiy...pejam celik pejam celik dah setahun dah adief...how time flies....anyway, just wanna wish you Happy Birthday!Be a good son and brother..love u so much...jangan notty notty!!muahhhhhhh

Adief : 11 months old

Salam u all...

rasa macam nak kena sinus je bila masuk blog ni...hehehe...hari ni i nak update pasal adief...20hb yang lepas, genap adief 11 bulan...oo my goshhh...next month dah setahun...dah tak baby dah adief...kejapnye masa berlalu....sedih pulak bila tengok cepat betul anak-anak membesar....tapi nak buat camne kan...

progress adief memang dah banyak sangat...dah pandai nak berdiri sambil pegang-pegang kerusi or apa-apa la yang dia boleh capai...then dah berani nak lepas-lepas tangan sebelah...but belum boleh jalan lagi...bab aktif memang tak boleh nak cakap apa la...aktif sangat...badan pun dah susut tak macam sofea sampai sekarang still tak hilang-hilang baby fat dia...hehhee...lagi pandai tunjuk perasaan...suka sangat lentik-lentik kan badan dia kalau marah...garang adief ni...nak pakai kan diaper and baju pun dah susah...kalau nak dengar suara nyaring mommy keluar time nak pakaikan baju dia la....gerammm sangat...

gigi adief dah ada 6 batang...4 atas n 2 bawah...rasanya dah faham sikit-sikit apa orang cakap...suka tepuk tangan....pastu dah pandai gaduh dengan kakak sofea....tapi yang paling i rasa syahdu tengok bila tengok adief bergolek-golek dengan sofea...ala ala macam anak kucing bergurau...adief kalau nampak sofea baring mesti dia sondol kakak dia macam nak manja-manja...memang sejuk sangat hati...hilang semua penat lelah...seriously, it's worth it...sometimes memang ada masa yang rasa exhausted, rasa tak freedom, rasa nak nangis, rasa tak cukup tidur, rasa fedup but bila tengok anak-anak senyum, ketawa, happy, tidur; hilang semua rasa-rasa yang tak best tu....memang anak-anak tu satu anugerah Allah yang paling berharga....i can't explain the feeling...rasanya mommies out there faham la kan...pada yang belum mendapat rezeki lagi, insyaAllah satu hari nanti Allah akan kurniakan rezeki tak ternilai tu...apa yang penting setiap kejadian pasti ada hikmahnya...trust me!!

oklah my dear friends...need to stop now...talk to u later...hopefully soon...hehehe...bye..

p/s: kualiti gambar kurang memuaskan due to pakai hp and adief yang semakin lasak tak boleh duduk diam...

Adief : 10 months old

my little tigerrrr....arrrr...

Salam semua....wah...memang berhabukk terus blog ni...tak sempat nak update pasal adief..

Masa 20hb Feb tu genap la adief 10 bulan...macam-macam dah budak kecik ni punya progress..sekejap je masa berlalu...in 2 months time, he will turn ONE...dah tak baby la adief...bau baby pun dah hilang...sekarang bau masyammm + bacinnn macam kakak sofea..

Progress adief memang dah banyak compared to last month...adief dah boleh duduk betul..suka nak berdiri...mana-mana tempat yang dia boleh berpaut memang dia suka la especially kerusi makan...then dah boleh lepas tangan sebelah...merangkak pulak memang laju sangat...kalau dengar orang panggil Adief Shafiy mesti dia datang eventhough kita panggil dari bilik lain...tau tau je dah muncul budak busyukkk ni...

In term of emotion pulak, memang dah pandai nak tunjuk kalau dia happy, marah, sedih...kalau dia marah tu memang nampak sangat muka dia tu...macam tigerrrrrrrr...hehehe...jangan garang-garang sangat ye sayanggg...

Then adief dah pandai tepuk tangan...kalau dengar lagu ke mesti goyang-goyang badan dia...dengan cheeky face dia tu...hishh...geram betul...

Berat adief sekarang 8.5kg...i tengok adief macam dah kecut la..tak macam sofea dulu...montel sampai sekarang...maybe sebab adief lagi aktif kot...

Okaylah..i think tu je nak update...talk to u later dear...bye

Happy 3rd Birthday Adriana Sofea

Salam u all...lamanya i tak update blog...this is my first entry for this month...so for today's entry i just wanna wish Happy 3rd Birthday to my sweet little angel Adriana Sofea...

Cepat betul dah 3 tahun...for the past 3 years, i think sofea is a very easy to take care of...memang tak susah nak jaga dia...nakal-nakal sikit tu biasa la kan...ada la jeritan manja dari mommy dia ni...pukul-pukalan manja pun ada jugak...kalau nak update pasal progress dia memang dah terlampau banyak...i pun susah nak catch up...every day there's always a surprise from her...she always makes me smile and even laugh tak ingat dunia punya...

Sofea suka sangat tengok Playhouse Disney Channel...semua cerita dia nak tengok...sometimes tension jugak sebab asyik dia je yang conquer...but she had learned a lot from there...she can understand simple english conversation...kadang-kadang kelakar jugak bila dengar dia cuba nak ikut character dalam PHD tu cakap sampai we all pun tak faham...faham hujung-hujung je...okay la tu kan...hehhehe..antara words yang dah boleh cakap "Thank you", "You're welcome", "No thanks, I'm not hungry", "what is it guys(boleh pulak dia panggil kitorg guyss...hehhee)", "How are u?I'm fine tq","Watch out mommy", "I want....","Where are you??","I'm here" ,"That's you mommy" and so on...banyak lagi sebenarnya....tapi tak dapat nak recall;-)

She likes painting, colouring books, dancing and even humming lagu-lagu kat radio...padahal lagu dia humming tu first time dia dengar....kalau aktiviti fizikal macam main dekat playground pun dia suka sangat....sofea memang suka memanjat...baru-baru ni sofea ada perangai baru...boleh la kalau nak panggil attention seeker...i perasan kalau adief tersembam ke pastu menangis then i dokong pujuk adief...pastu tak lama lepas tu sofea pun buat-buat tersembam jugak and buat-buat menangis...so i pun kena la buat sama macam i buat dekat adief...normal ke ye??normal la kot kan...maybe sofea nak tengok sama tak layanan untuk adief dengan layanan untuk dia...of coz la sama sayang, busyuk, ashammm mommy ni...

Apa lagi nak update ye...rasa macam dah banyak...i think i stop now....talk to u later...bye

For my precious Adriana Sofea, Happy Birthday to you...be a good daughter...mommy always pray for your happiness and love you always (alamak..sambil type sambil rasa sebak pulak)

p/s: balik ni nak beli choc cake for her...

Mommy-Daughter Conversation

Salam u all,

Last nite masa tengah buat kerja kat dapur tiba-tiba sofea tunjuk kat one of our(hubby n me) picture kat bangkok...

sofea : ni gambar mommy, ni gambar daddy

mommy: gambar sofea mana?

sofea : tak tau

mommy : u're inside my tummy

sofea: MOMMY!!!(sambil buat muka nak gaduh and nak nangis) JANGAN MAKAN THOFEA!!!THOFEA BIG!!!!

mommy: hahahahahhahahahaha (rasa nak pecah perut)

sofea pun tak jadik nak nangis sebab tengok mommy dia ketawa macam cik ponti....but seriously, i tak sangka sofea boleh terfikir sampai macam tu sekali...hahahhahahaha...sofea dah big girl la...

okaylah...tu je nak update...talk to u later...bye

gambar sofea masa one year old...cemetot je

Potty/Toilet Training - Part 3

Salam u all....how's ur weekend?hopefully semua happy ye..

In this entry i nak cerita sikit perkembangan toilet training sofea...lama i tak update kan...mesti u all ingat i dah lupa kan cita-cita murni i to toilet train sofea sampai dia pandai before her 3rd birthday....of coz la i ingat and masih meneruskan usaha tu...

actually malas nak update kat sini sebab routine tu sama je...lagipun i only managed to train her on weekend...so harapan tu agak tipis la plus masa bulan dec tu banyak berjalan...bila berjalan memang i pakai kan sofea diaper....eh..panjang pulak explaination kan...

sambung terus pasal latest progress...as usual last weekend i tak pakaikan sofea diaper...on saturday tu sofea nak mandi awal because i bought new toothbrush for her...ada gambar princess...so semangat la sofea nak mandi...pukul 9 am dah siap...i pesan kat dia berpuluh kali la kalau nak k*nc*ng and uk uk kat toilet...so asalkan nampak muka sofea, i mentioned the same thing over and over...agaknya sofea pun boring...kali ni ada progress sebab bila i ajak pegi toilet dia dengan rela hati ikut...before this selalu gaduh dengan dia...sure melalak-lalak macam kena dera...pressure jugak...so on saturday success with no accident...

on sunday pun sama jugak...cuma kali ni i memang proud sangat dengan sofea....mula-mula ada la i ajak pegi toilet...tapi as usual tunggu punya tunggu takde...dia cakap k*nc*ng pegi kerja...than dalam 3.30pm tu i tengah lipat baju yang bertimbun...suddenly sofea cakap "mommy, sofea nak k*nc*ng"...i pun apa lagi terus melompat bawak dia...letak je kat toilet terus keluar...i was like happy gila and bangga sangat-sangat dengan sofea...sofea pun muka proud je...tak sangka anak mommy dah pandai...so on sunday pun succes with no accident...today dah cakap kat mama yang sofea dah pandai cakap bila dia nak pegi toilet...tak tau la camne progress hari ni...hopefully takde accident la...

so tu je lah progress terkini...i'm so proud of sofea...belum lagi anak lulus cemerlang dalam spm kan...memang the feeling is priceless la...mommy love sofea..nanti mommy buy big present for your birthday okay....muah muah muah...

okaylah dear...kali ni entry tanpa gambar...tak bawak memory card...talk to u later...bye

Adief : 9 months old

Salam u all....

semalam (20/1) genap umur adief 9 bulan....dah macam-macam dah progress adief...adief dah boleh merangkak...walaupun kadang-kadang nampak macam dia buat kuak kupu-kupu pun ada...laju jugak la...kadang-kadang letak dia kat living room, bila tengok lagi sekali dah masuk bawah meja makan...so memang sentiasa nak kena monitor...sekarang dah start nak duduk sendiri..but still tak proper lagi...menyenget je landing dia tu...hehehe...bab lasak tu memang i tak nafikan la...sebelum ni memang biasa dengar baby boy lagi lasak dari baby girl...but i tak percaya sangat...for me baby sama je...tapi bila dah ada adief ni i rasa memang betul la...yang i notice, adief is very determine baby...kalau dia nak something, he will do anything to get that thing...he will never give up....tak fikir dah jatuh ke tergolek ke...janji dia dapat benda tu...cakap pasal jatuh, adief pecah rekod kakak sofea...sofea dulu 1st time jatuh katil masa umur dia 10 mths...adief pulak 8 mths ++ dah jatuh katil...sekarang memang tak boleh bagi dia tido atas katil...biasanya i akan tido kan dia on our bed 1st and then bila dia dah lena terus angkat masuk baby cot...risau la nak biarkan....then dah boleh berpaut kat badan orang macam nak memanjat...kalau dirikan pun dah boleh berdiri with support la of coz...

kalau bab nak suruh salam ke, babai ke or tepuk tangan belum faham lagi...bab yg ni sofea lagi cepat la...sbb sofea jenis suka ikut...memang nampak la beza perangai sofea n adief ni...bila dah ada anak lebih dari sorang ni memang kita boleh compare la...of coz in a good way...for me, i tak kisah siapa pandai dulu because both of them are my little angels...i love them so much with all my heart...

ada lagi update pasal adief on his skill...yang ni skill yang i tak berapa berkenan...adief is so clingy...pastu suka la nak merengek...emmm...maybe becoz of separation-anxiety phase...harap-harapnye cepat la abis phase ni...tapi time ni je la kita boleh nak dukung-peluk-gomol our kid tanpa perlu berhempas pulas kan...hahahahhahaha....

okaylah...panjang pulak...need to stop now...talk to u later...bye

Art Attack with Sofea

Salam my dear friends...

Last saturday i ada belikan sofea Sand Art kat MPH...saja lah nak buat fun activity with sofea...lagipun sofea memang suka painting kat rumah my in law...so why not bagi dia membuat kecah kat our home kan...hehehe...so on sunday tu terus bentang newspaper kat toy room and start the activity...suka betul dia...mommy nak tolong pun sofea tak bagi...dia boleh cakap "mommy jangan tolong thofea"...so mari kita tengokkk sape yang kenaaaaaa...hehhehe

alatan-alatan yang diperlukan...semua dah ada dalam box tu...tengok camne anak dara tu duduk...

anak murid....


cara-caranya senang saje...tenyeh je kat mickey moshhh tu ye dengan menggunakan jari....mommy tukang peel, sofea tukang pull dgn tempek...

mudah saje ye...sambil buat pun still boleh tengok tv...

yeay...dah siappp....gambar ni lom habis lagi...lupa nak snap gambar yang dah siap...bagus la sand art ni...siap bagi frame sekali...

diakhiri dengan video sofea tengah draw mommy n daddy's picture...talk to u later...bye;-)

p/s: next month sofea will turn 3...cepatnya masa berlalu

Baby's Food

Assalamualaikum semua...now dah pukul 5pm...baru ada masa nak update sikit...hari ni i nak cerita pasal Baby's food...takde la cerita panjang pun...just nak bagitau pasal 1st solid food for adief n sofea....kalau nak ikutkan i ni memang la kurang rajin bab masak-masak ni...mengaku jelah kan...tapi bila ada anak ni memang kena rajin la masak...so masa sofea umur 6 mths tu memula try bagi dia makan cereal..tapi dia memang tak suka langsung...muka dia sama macam muka i kalau minum susu...adief pun macam tu jugak...so nak taknak memang i need to cook for them...antara resepi yang i pernah buat,

1. sweet potato + carrot + parsnip

2. bubur + potato + carrot

3. bubur + ikan bilis + bayam

4. bubur + ayam + potato

cara-cara nak buat tu semuanya sama je,

- segenggam beras : basuh dan masuk dalam periuk...bubuh air banyak dan masak

- bahan-bahan lain : potong kecil-kecil pastu campak je dalam periuk tu

- bila air dah nak kering, tutup api

masa untuk sofea dulu i blend semua makanan dia so takyah la tunggu sampai air tu kering sangat....tapi untuk adief memang i tunggu sampai jadi bubur...tu yang lama tu...pastu tenyeh-tenyeh dengan garfu bahan-bahan lain bagi sebati dengan bubur...

memang ambil masa la nak masak sebab nak jadik bubur kan...rasanya dalam 2 jam jugak la...macam adief masa memula tu i jumpa baby food dalam botol brand Heinz...i amik flavor sweet potato + carrot + parsnip dengan pumpkin + sweet corn...i bagi during weekend je la...during weekdays my MIL's maid will cook for him...tapi bila lama-lama tu i rasa kesian dekat adief coz i tak masak untuk dia walaupun dia ok je kan...so i pun start la masak untuk adief walaupun preparation dia lagi lama dari nak feeding him...alhamdulillah lepas tengok dia makan tu terus i excited nak masak lagi...worth it....adief memang suka sgt my cook...usually i will cook for 2 days meals(saturday n sunday)...masuk dalam bekas...bila nak makan just panaskan portion yang nak bagi dekat adief...so far dia takde problem bab makan ni...2 senduk mesti habiss...sayang busyuk mommy ni...this entry boleh la wat rujukan for new mommy and also for me in the future...i ada beli magazine Rasa...ada byk resepi untuk anak dari baby sampai la remaja...okaylah...ni i upload gambar n video adief....talk to u later...bye

My Princess Sofea

Salam u all...this is my first entry for 2010...makin lama makin sikit pulak entry dalam blog ni kan...bukannya taknak update, it just that i kekurangan idea la...seronok baca blog orang je...

masa tengah nak carik file lama dalam my external harddisk, tetiba terbuka folder gambar-gambar lama sofea....bila tengok balik rasa rindunya sofea masa kecik...next month she will turn 3...OMG tak sangka ada anak umur 3 yo....pejam celik pejam celik nanti ada anak umur 30 tahun pulak...huhuhu...tak tau la masa tu panjang umur lagi ke tak....alamak..tetiba rasa sebak...

okaylah, ni i post kan randomly gambar sofea masa baby n 1 ++ y.o...

thats all for now....nanti nak cerita pasal cuti-cuti malaysia last year...memory card tak bawak...talk to u later...bye..

p/s: hubby kata seronok amik gambar sofea masa kecik-kecik...sekarang susah betul nak amik...

p/s2: rambut sofea sekarang dah panjang...bila tgk gambar lama sofea ni rasa nak potong je rambut dia...should i?what do u think?

Adief : 8 months old

Salam u all...hari ni i nak update pasal my buah hati pengarang jantung Adief Shafiy...semalam genap la adief 8 months...cepatnya adief dah besar...bau baby pun dah nak hilang....bau masyamm macam kakak sofea dah dia...on friday masa cuti Maal Hijrah tu adief macam nak kena selsema...so on saturday tu bawak adief pegi klinik...lega adief tak demam..so bagi dia ubat selsema + batuk sekali....biasa la kalau anak-anak sakit, sure kita tak senang hati kan...oklah, sambung balik cerita pasal his development progress...


mat senyum

adief dah pandai menyusur sekarang...dah boleh gi depan, gi belakang, gi kiri, gi kanan...but sometimes adief masuk gear reverse...hehehe...bontot pun dah boleh angkat sambil goyang-goyang tapi belum merangkak lagi...mulut memang bising sangat...rasanya dah ada 2nd sofea dalam our home...musykil gak camne anak-anak banyak mulut memandangkan my hubby n me agak berat mulut...hehehhee...kalau jumpa orang mesti tanya camne sofea banyak cakap..mommy n daddy senyap je...elok gak kan, so that takde la sunyi rumah...adief dah pandai tunjuk emotion...kalau dia marah memang nampak la dia marah...especially kalau orang ambik barang dari tangan dia...suka main peek-a-boo...pandai pulak tu kalau i nyorok, dia carik...bila kita sergah je mengekek-ngekek dia ketawa...happy betul...malam-malam still bangun minum susu...sofea dulu memang dah tak bangun dah...bila dia terjaga je dia hisap jari..adief tak berapa pandai hisap jari..so tu yg nangis tu mintak susu...bila adief nak tido sampai pagi ni sayang...last saturday perasan ada putih kat gusi dia...bila rasa rupanya dah ada gigi keluar...so for the record, his 1st tooth keluar on 19th Dec 2009...patut la asyik drooling je....for now tu je la latest update on adief....tunggu next month pulak for his new development progress...to my dear adief, mommy love u so much....talk to u later friends...bye

Balik Kampung + Jalan Penang

Salam u all...sihat ke?hopefully semua sihat ye...my previous entry ada i suruh teka kan...tapi 2 orang je yang teka...malu la bagi teka-teki tapi takde sape nak teka...hahahhahaha*nyorok bawah meja la*...jawapan yang shana n is bagi tu tak betul la...jawapan sebenar dia sofea naik aeroplane...use ur imagination ye kawan-kawan....i pun tak terfikir yang dia naik aeroplane...sofea sofea...
Hari ni nak story pasal we all balik kampung kat Gurun, Kedah...ni rumah tok sebelah babah...actually we all balik pun bukan time raya haji...raya haji raya kat rumah mama kat gombak...semua ada termasuk la shana....pastu pegi rumah pak anjang dengan lepak rumah shana...tu je lah aktiviti termasuk la aktiviti makan dan makan...cakap pasal makan, berat i dah naik la :-( sambung balik cerita balik kampung...melalut pulaknye..ari tu balik sebab my cousin kawin...bertolak dari kl pukul 9 am hari ahad (29/11/09)...singgah kat restoran jejantas kat sungai buloh for breakfast.....so sampai rumah lang dalam pukul 2.30pm...pengantin pun tak sampai lagi...lepas dah makan n lepak kejap, terus balik rumah tok....seronok la sofea balik kampung...boleh kejar chicken...pastu boleh pulak dia lawan berkokok dengan ayam...elok pulak tu lepas dia berkokok, ayam pulak berkokok...ada la 4, 5 round ayam tu ikut dia...hahahhaha...lawak betul...i dah tergelak-gelak dah...pastu ikut tokbah round satu kawasan rumah tengok ikan kat anak sungai depan rumah tok...hubby pun tak lepas peluang ronda sambil amik gambar...maklum la hubby takde kampung...kampung baru kat kl adalah...hehehhe...dalam pukul 6 lebih tu bertolak la nak bermalam kat penang...saje la hubby bawak anak bini jalan-jalan kan....hubby booked resort office dia dengan harga RM4 semalam...ye kawan-kawan...hanya RM4...murah kan...resort tu betul-betul sebelah Hard Rock Hotel...kalau ikutkan boleh sangat nak jalan gi kat HRC tapi sofea dengan adief nak letak manakan...sampai resort tu memang lambat la sebab dari gurun ke penang jam tak hengat...sampai hotel dalam pukul 9 lebih mlm....adief dengan sofea sempat la tido nyenyak dalam kereta...tapi bila dukong naik resort terus mata memasing terbeliyakkk...lepak-lepak dulu n mandi semua terus pegi batu ferringhi tempat jual barang-barang tepi jalan tu....tujuannye memang nak carik dvd murah...habis jugak la RM100 semata-mata beli dvd...tu pun tak dapat nak pilih-pilih sangat sebab sorang dukong sofea, sorang dukong adief...cepat bayangkannn...dah la panas kan...sian adief n sofea....lepas settle terus gi makan...carik-carik jumpa la Tari cafe...masa i belaja dulu pernah la makan sini...sedap jugak food dia...sesuai la dgn selera i n hubby...lepas makan terus balik...

supposed we plan nak balik on monday...tapi hubby memang booked untuk 2 malam...dia kata saja je sebab murah kan...so takde la nak kena check out tepat-tepat pukul 12 on monday tu..fikir punya fikir, we decided to extend our vacation...dah alang-alang accomodation dah ada kan....call mama cakap we all stay kat penang lagi...pastu dia cakap diorg pun nak datang penang la...so tunggu la diorang sampai dari gurun...so sementara tu sempat la pegi Butterfly Farm...cik kak sofea tu memang suka sangat dalam tu sampai dia cakap thofea taknak balik...puas gak pujuk baru ok...hehehhe...nanti tengok gambar-gambar ye...lepas tu pegi lunch kat area Fort Cornwallis...makan mee sotong...sape pernah makan mee sotong tu??sedap kan...hubby la yang bagitau...walaupun i pernah study selama 4 tahun dekat penang, tapi tak pernah tau pun ada mee sotong....dalam pukul 5 lebih tu mama and the geng pun sampai...lepak-lepak kejap then terus carik apartment untuk diorang...jumpa la Sri Sayang kalau tak silap i...naik kejap tunggu diorg settle apa-apa yang patut, terus bawak diorg pegi tengok our resort....then pegi makan nasi kandar dekat restoran aleef...bila perut dah kenyang baru la pegi batu ferringhi...nak carik dvd lagi...sekali tu semua tutup...agaknye ada raid kot....frust la ejam tak dapat beli dvd...nasib baik la i dah beli banyak hari ahad....lepas shopping seketul dua barang terus la balik tempat masing-masing...
On tuesday, mama and the geng check out awal...pastu diorang terus balik kl...we checked out at 12++ pm....before that sempat la jalan-jalan kat tepi pantai depan resort...takut nak mandi sebab ombak besar jugak....sofea suka main pasir....lepas check out singgah toy museum and had our lunch at kayu nasi kandar...tercapai gak hasrat nak makan kat situ...dalam pukul 3 lebih pm terus balik kl...sampai rumah dalam pukul 8pm...beli pizza for our dinner....balik tu pancit la masing-masing...memang exhausted sangat tapi i enjoy sangat sebab dapat pegi jalan-jalan dengan family...as usual, bila tengok muka sofea enjoy memang priceless la...sampaikan bila dia dah cam jalan nak balik rumah tu dia cakap thofea tak nak balik sambil nangisssss...okaylah...panjang jugak cerita i ni...talk to u later...bye

Cuba Teka..

Salam u all...lamanya tak update blog...banyak cerita nak kongsi tapi i tak bawak memory card la..tak seronok pulak nak cerita takde gambar kan...so petang ni i just nak suruh u all teka-teka la...ada ke orang nak teka ni???hehehe...so siapa yang menjadi orang pertama yang dapat teka dengan betul, i bagi hadiah ye...cuba teka cik kak ni tengah naik apa?

p/s: tengah sakit gigi ni...sakit sampai pening kepala...adoiii la seksanya sakit gigi...

Adief : 7 months old

Salam u all..rasa macam lama je tak update blog ni...busy dgn tender...pagi tadi baru hantar...lega sikit...hopefully success la...aminnnn
hari ni i nak update sikit pasal adief...he's already 7 months old..cepat betul la masa berlalu...seriously i rasa cepat sangat adief membesar compared to time sofea dulu...maybe time tu anak sorang je kan so asyik la buat count down nak tunggu sofea membesar...now dah ada 2 kids tak sempat la nak count down...
on 20th Nov tu genap la adief 7 months...sekarang ni adief dah pandai sebut da da da, ta ta ta, ada ada ada....last time aaaaa je kan...mat cool ni dah kurang cool la sekarang...adief dah start clingy...nampak mommy je nangis nak dukung, nampak daddy je nangis suruh ambik...time adief nak suruh ambik tu adief jadik macam ulat beluncas tau...hehhehe...adief kan dah start makan since dia 6 months old..so far alhamdulillah ok je selera dia...apa lagi ye nak update..adief still belum crawling..macam sofea dulu memang tak crawl..tau-tau je dia nak bertatih...sementara nak pandai bertatih tu dia buat kuak kupu-kupu la kalau nak mobile...laju pulak tu...adief ni tak tau la sama ke tak dengan kakak thofea..i think tu jela update on adief..yang lain-lain tu sama macam sebelum-sebelum ni...
okaylah u all...dikesempatan ini i nak ucapkan Selamat Hari Raya Haji...have a long holiday ye...insyaAllah kami sekeluarga akan balik Gurun, Kedah on sunday...ada wedding my cousin...amik cuti on monday nak cuti-cuti malaysia;-) need to stop now..talk to u later...bye

macam ni la adief kalau nak suruh orang dukung dia

mata pun jadik bulat nak marah la tu

dengan tok bah tersayang

Potty/Toilet Training - Part 2

Salam u all...how r u today??i ni kan sebenarnya bz tau...sebab ada tender yang ditunggu-tunggu dah masuk...so kena lah berhempas pulas kan buat yang terbaik...hopefully ada la rezeki...aminnn...cepat amin beramai-ramai;-)
okaylah sementara i tengah nak panas kan enjin ni, i nak update sikit pasal toilrt training sofea...nanti kalau tak update u all kata i mengelatkan tak buat ataupun hangat-hangat tahi ayam...hehehhe...
on saturday morning, bangun je tido i bawak sofea gi toilet...suruh dia wee wee kan...tapi takde jugak...agaknye dia dah wee wee dalam kampesss(sofea sebuat diaper tu kempesss...hehehe) dia...then i terus tak pakaikan diaper...pesan la kat dia kalau nak k*nc*ng atau uk uk cakap tau...dia pun as usual cakap okay mommy...yo yo ooo je sofea ni...dalam pukul 11 tu hubby nak mandikan sofea sebab we all nak get ready pegi celebrate papa(FIL)'s birthday kat Concorde Hotel...so lepas mandi tu memang terus pakaikan sofea diaper...jadiknya 3 jam je la sofea diaperless with zero accident...
on sunday pulak start lepas mandi memang tak pakai kan diaper...masa tu pukul 12...eh..asyik mandi pukul 12 je kan budak ni...hehehehe...kantoiiiii...dalam pukul 1 lebih tu i tengah tidokan adief dalam bilik, hubby pulak tengah vacuum rumah*hubby i memang rajin kemas rumah;-)*, tetiba sofea cakap dia yak yak...tengok memang dah ada...seb baik tak bersepah...so i bawak la sofea and cleaned her up...suruh jugak dia duduk kat potty kot la nak k*nc* g kan...tapi takde...i target dalam pukul 2.30pm i nak bawak dia lagi...tapi masa tu tengah prepare for lunch (we had late breakfast if u're curious nape lambat lunch)..dalam pukul 2.40pm tu sofea jerit dari toyroom cakap dia uk uk...tengok-tengok dah basah...baru i notice rupanye kalau dia cakap dia uk uk tu sebenarnye dia wee wee and kalau dia cakap dia yak yak tu maknenye dia doo doo...alhamdulillah Allah bagi kesabaran dekat i masa dah basah-basah tu kan...takde la rasa nak mengamuk ke...lagipun bukan salah sofea..kalau i bwk dia masa pukul 2.30pm tu sure dia tak bocor kan...sofea belum pandai lagi nak inform before dia buat business...lepas dah settle baru dia inform...memang camtu ke?on sunday tu memang dia diaperless sampai pukul 6pm...lepas mandi memang pakaikan diaper sebab dia tak nap lagi so biasanya dia akan tertido sampai la esok pagi...kesimpulannya 6 hrs diaperless with 2 accidents(1 besaaarrr punye, 1 kecikkk)...so far so good kan..

kat sini i nak bagitau la antara cabaran-cabaran nak potty/toilet train sofea:
1. memang susah sangat nak ajak dia pegi toilet...takkan asyik nak pancing je dgn coklat or benda-benda lain...ada sesiapa nak bagi suggestion pleaseeee
2. i boleh train only on weekend...sebab on weekdays tu susah sikit la coz bibik MIL tu banyak kerjakan...so i taknak menyusahkan..kalau bibik i sendiri memang i suruh je...rasa-rasanya berkesan ke??
3. ape lagi ek...kalau awal-awal ni i tak berani nak diaperless kan sofea bila nak jalan-jalan coz nanti susah pulak...i'm not ready...what do u thing?
so far tu je kot..any progress will update soonnn...
ni ada selingan wat penghibur hati i n u all;-)

situation 1
sofea tengah main spray air..pastu i nak ambik la sebab dia sibuk spray her tent..tetiba dia jerit "NOOOO, GIVE ME BACK!!" amboi budak ni...nak tergelak pun ada..

situation 2
dalam kereta pagi-pagi nak pegi kerja
me: malam tadi sofea mimpi apa?
sofea: mimpi kurus....
me: hahahahahhahahahahhahaha...siann anak mommy ni

situation 3
hubby: wife H(bukan nama sebenar) dah bersalin
me: ooo yeke...boy ke girl
sofea: kawan daddy dapat baby mcm thofea
me: aik...*musykil sbb budak kecik tu boleh tau pulak
hubby: tadi dia dengar masa H call i..sofea tanya kawan daddy ke...
me: laaa...hehehhee
boleh pulak dia paham ape kita sembang dalam phone...bzbody tau makcik ni..

okaylah u all...panjang pulak konon nak cerita sikit je kan...hehehhe...nak sambung wat kerja...dah panas dah enjin ni...talk to u later...bye;-)

Potty/Toilet Training - Part 1

budak yang nak kena train

Salam u all...topik hari ni ialah Potty/Toilet Train...actually dah lama dah i pasang niat nak start train sofea...tapi biasa la...dalam sehari tu sekali je i bawak dia pegi toilet...pastu sofea pun cakap takde la mommy...takde pun...pastu i pun dah malas....then bila baca or dengar cerita kawan-kawan lain yang dah berjaya train their kids, i pun jeles la kan pastu berkobar-kobar balik nak train sofea...kiranya hangat-hangat taik ayam la....lagipun i belum bersedia dari segi mental dan fizikal kalau sofea terkucil merata-rata kan...but in the same time i dah browse la dalam internet nak carik tips-tips yang berguna....ni antara yang i buat for my reference:

Toilet Training Your Child
When should I start toilet training my child?
Do not start toilet training until both you and your child are ready. You are ready when you are able to devote the time and energy necessary to encourage your child on a daily basis for at least 3 months.Your child is ready when he or she can signal that the diaper is wet or soiled, or when your child is able to say that he or she would like to go to the potty. This usually occurs when a child is 18 to 24 months of age. However, it is not uncommon for a child to still be in diapers at 2 and a half to 3 years of age.

How should I prepare my child for toilet training?
Allow your child to be present when you go to the bathroom and make your child feel comfortable in the bathroom. Allow your child to see urine and bowel movements in the toilet. Let your child play with flushing the toilet.Before toilet training your child, place a potty chair in your child's normal living and play area so that your child will become familiar with the potty. Consider placing a potty chair on each floor of the house if you live in a multilevel home. Allow your child to observe, touch and become familiar with the potty chair.Tell your child that the potty chair is his or her own chair. Allow your child to sit fully clothed on the potty chair, as if it were a regular chair. Allow your child to leave the potty chair at any time. Do not force your child to spend time sitting on the chair.After your child has become used to the potty chair and sits on it regularly with his or her clothes on, try having your child sit on the potty without wearing pants and a diaper. Let your child become comfortable with sitting on the potty without wearing pants and a diaper.The next step is to show your child how the potty chair is used. Place stool from a dirty diaper into the potty chair. Allow your child to observe the transfer of the bowel movement from the potty chair into the toilet. Let your child flush the toilet and watch the bowel movement disappear down the toilet.

How do I teach my child to use the toilet?
After your child has become comfortable with flushing the toilet and sitting on the potty chair, you may begin teaching your child to go to the bathroom. Keep your child in loose, easily removable pants.Place your child on the potty chair whenever he or she signals the need to go to the bathroom. Your child's facial expression may change when he or she feels the need to urinate or to have a bowel movement. Your child may stop any activity he or she is engaged in when he or she feels the need to go to the bathroom.Most children have a bowel movement once a day, usually within an hour after eating. Most children urinate within an hour after having a large drink.In addition to watching for signals that your child needs to urinate or have a bowel movement, place your child on the potty at regular intervals. This may be as often as every 1and a half to 2 hours.Stay with your child when he or she is on the potty chair. Reading or talking to your child when he or she is sitting on the potty may help your child relax. Praise your child when he or she goes to the bathroom in the potty chair, but do not express disappointment if your child does not urinate or have a bowel movement in the potty. Be patient with your child.Once your child has learned to use the potty chair, your child can begin using an over-the-toilet seat and a step-up stool.

How long will it take to toilet train my child?
It may take up to 3 months. It is important for you to be patient and supportive. Do not punish your child when he or she has an accident.If your child is not toilet trained within 3 months, consult your family doctor. The most likely reason your child has not learned to use the potty is that your child is not yet ready for toilet training.

i hope that by umur sofea 3tahun (11th Feb 2010), at least dia dah boleh cakap la kalau dia nak wee or doo...harap-harapnye berjaya la ye...so ni benda-benda yang perlu:

• first sekali of coz la kena ada potty chair nye kan...as for me potty dah tak payah beli sebab tokbah sofea dah belikan for her 1st birthday...lama dah kan...potty sofea bentuk macam kerusi..so kalau taknak buat potty, nak buat kerusi untuk tengok tv pun boleh;-) i dah letak potty tu dalam 2nd bathroom yang senang nak access from living room, dining area, kitchen and toy room...
  
• secondly of coz la budak kecik yang nak kena train tu...kira trainee la kan...hehehe...rasanya dia dah ready...umur pun dah masuk 2thn 9bln...mulut pun macam mak nenek kan..
  
• then trainer pun mesti ready kan...on sunday tu siap tanya hubby susah tak nak cuci carpet kalau kena pee sofea...mudah-mudahan kuat la semangat i dan diberi tahap kesabaran yang tinggi;-) takut gak kalau jadik hulk kan...for the time being i train during weekend je la...kalau tahap accident kurang boleh la minta tolong maid MIL tolong train during weekdays...


• bahan-bahan bacaan untuk sofea guna masa tengah dok dalam toilet...penting jugak ni sebab lama kan nak tunggu...boring pulak minah tu karang


• rewards untuk trainee..hari tu sofea nak belon..so i dah belikan belon satu pek...ada 15 biji(kalau belon biji ke ek...hehehe)...daddy sofea jadi tukang blow sebab kalau mommy sofea yang blow harapkan pipi je yang kembung...takde la bagi semua terus...bagi satu dulu...masa i beli kan tu hubby cakap i bribe sofea...i cakap tu bukan bribe, tu reward...there's a very fine line between those words...depends on our intention kan...betul tak kawan-kawan...hehehe

rasanya tu je la kot...kalau ada tertinggal boleh tak u all tinggalkan comment:-D

so nak dijadikan cerita, on sunday tu i dah nekad nak start jugak...lepas je mandi i tak pakaikan diaper kat sofea...pakai panty je...sebab kalau pakai kan diaper, automatic i pun take for granted...masa tu dah pukul 12noon...kantoi sofea mandi lambat...hehehe...bukan selalu camtu ye kawan-kawan...sometimes je terbabas...so i pun set la every 2 hrs i bawak sofea duduk atas potty dia...susah jugak nak pujuk dia...dalam pukul 2 tu i cakap nak bagi coklat...dia pun agree la...i baca kan la story book kat dia...sambil tu dia ngomel la takde pun...takde pun....so 1st time tu memang dia tak pee...pakaikan balik panty dia...dalam pukul 3 tu i bawak lagi sebab takde kan...masa ni dia memang taknak...kebetulan dia nak belon masa tu...i pun cakap la nanti mommy beli balloon ok...dia jawab thofea nak pink balloon...oklah sofea...dia pun ikut la masuk...sama jugak takde keluar...i letak dia dalam 10minutes camtu la..sambil tu i buat la apa-apa yang patut...dengar la dia ngomel sorang-sorang...then dalam pukul 4 pujuk dia lagi...letak dia atas potty i pun keluar...tetiba dengar dia cakap ada la mommy...i pun terus la masuk bathroom...bila intai takde pun...sekali tu baru ada...masa ni muka sofea macam surprise sangat...sebab 1st time kot tengok camne air keluar kan...hahahhaha....dia terus cakap "thofea tembak square"...*dia cakap tembak sebab kat rumah i pakai kepala paip yang jenis tekan tu pastu keluar air...hubby selalu cakap kat sofea tembak air...tu yang dia cakap tembak tu...hehhehe...square tu tiles dalam bathroom...ada lah air k*nc*ng dia yang terkena kat lantai*...excited and proud sangat dia...i pun of coz la proud sangat of her....bising la dua beranak dalam bathroom tu sebab excited melampau...hehehhe....lepas dah cuci tu i pun pakaikan la diaper sebab we all nak keluar...so for 1st day succeed la kan...4 hrs diaper free and no accident ;-) tak sabar nak tunggu this saturday...2nd day of mission...kalau ok i'll update in my blog ye...kalau senyap je tu maknanya takde la tu kan...heehhee...

so mommies out there, jom la share ur experience how to potty/toilet train ur kid...sesiapa yang nak share, boleh la post in your blog and then leave ur blog url kat comment ye...i really need help...okaylah..have to stop now...talk to u later...bye

muka budak happy dapat tembak kat square...heheheh