Nitpicker/Fault Finders!

Dictionary Reference :

fault·find·er

–noun

a person who habitually finds fault, complains, or objects, esp. in a petty way.

Some people consummate their personal happiness by harshly treating other individual by means of power tripping or unjust criticism. Others would judge and think ill just because they weren't accordingly given what they wanted. I asked my self why is it so but then I went blank. They say experience is really the best teacher and indeed so I must say.  Nonetheless, the world  has taught me another lesson through a hard situation. This time around such circumstances has battered and bruised my whole being; something that will test my patience, understanding and judgment. The cut it made has bleed anguish and hostility with in my soul. For they have hurt someone close to my heart  it flares up my anger, negative thoughts rises and impulsiveness might lead me to be contemptuous. Batter, insult, belittle and judge me I'll try hard to be patience and be silent but please I beg of you not to include someone that matters like life to me. As much as I want to comprehend and let it go somehow they seem to haunt me in every possible way they can.Cried my heart out, opened my blog to let it out and hope for the best. I keep telling myself that seasons change, tomorrow might bring a brighter one and pray that those people will understand the position were we stand. I am not saying at all that I am perfect and all nice that would be hypocrisy; but each time a situation occur I aim to put myself on the other person's shoes before I act or judge. You don't know what that person is going through or how huge his responsibility are but then you abruptly judge his personality.


This blog is my solace indeed for here I can elucidate my emotions and intellect. I am not someone who personally confronts cause I always do my best to be patient, understanding and calm. In silent I can win this battle over right judgment  How fortunate I am to be brought up in the province were people aim to be fair and kind to one another. A place were my personality was molded to aim to be kind and nice. To comprehend each circumstances in every angle, to selflessly humble oneself  for every ones sake. However, this is the real world were different people has different perspective thus we need to hold steadfastly to our courage to withstand it all. I write because this is my way of letting out what's inside my whole being. An outlet of emotions and thoughts, my confidant and  listener. It would be nice if we all wouldn't be a nitpicker or fault finder instead we should be a praiser. Each time I get to divulge my individuality here it seems that my pain lessens, positivity rises and what I write here stays here. All these I elude myself to carry on in the real world I mean all the negativity most especially the hatred. Now, I can say that I have calm myself, aim to conceptualize good vibes. So, in case your reading this please don't judge me I only wanted to share this for others to think this over and learn something useful for personal growth. Most of all I just wanted to be me. Thank you!

The best revenge is a vow to never be like the one who hurt and thinks ill of you.

We live in an imperfect world, a world were people have different opinions, beliefs and interest. In those differences we have choices, to either be fair and just or be vicious and noxious. Adverse notions can be reasons for misconstrue yet it should never be a reason for unjust and amiss behavior. The person you portray in front of each different individuals reflects the true colors of your heart. One should always try to comprehend the situation before jumping abruptly into any conclusion. Regardless of  the difference between two individuals when both bequeath each other the benefit of the doubt, they can coincide in one amicable living. A person with a conscience always thinks between being just or fair in spite of the antithesis in between. Deflect vengeance and thinking ill about other people. Remain open minded and fair, learn to adjust and thrive to live in a peaceful co existence. After all those difference would be one reason for RESPECT to flourish. Elude those assumption of power tripping or pride elevating. As long as the other person does nothing to harm you; in return is the same righteous act will be given to you.

             Gossiping and making up stories should be eradicated. People need to show  some compassion and give chances for others to prove themselves. Better ask yourself if what you are doing is just and fair?If those reasons you have are enough to treat them unfairly and disdainful!? What if others would do the same egotistic act to you?What would you feel?! Those selfish reasons and condescending acts, what fulfillment do you get from it?! Is it just because that's what friends do? Be as one,despite the wrong doings they inflict? Regardless if those other individuals are not your friends nor an enemy as long as they try to show you respect and understanding you should do the same too. The world is literally small let us not antagonize more reasons for it to shrink and build walls.



    Respect is being earned not because you are just friend but it is well  define when your not-so-called friend still gives that respect despite those differences.

My Favorite Quotes

*-*-Here are some of my favorite quotes which I made myself. :D All these quotes have been derived from my most innermost thoughts and inspired by life's circumstances. May you find something in here that you can relate and may help you facing life's uncertainties.-*-*-*

Prayers is the most powerful weapon of all time. It is the most inexpensive gift one cannot buy. A priceless gift that binds us to the one who gave us life. It is a beacon of light when darkness falls, it is a strong shield to keep you from harm, it is one's freedom that cannot be taken at all.

See,in all the pains you went through at the end of the road when you have found true happiness the pain is worth it, for you have realized that

happiness is more understood through pain ;)

Finding true happiness is being completely

honest to your self and others, loving others as you would like to be

loved, accepting your imperfections and make it as your strength;

forgive as you would like to be forgiven, be thankful of what you are

receiving and living life not just by the length but the essence of its width.

Regardless of life's uncertainties we can always look forward to a better tomorrow. Cheer up! Don't give up. If you do, there should be no if's nor buts just take in all the lessons that you will learn and it will be the strongest weapon you own :D

You can choose to learn, grow, accept, become the person you aspire, and to achieve the dreams of your life. Or you can choose to stagnate, to hesitate, and remain fearful and doubtful and live in mediocrity. You hold the key in the doors you choose to open, the direction to the road you will walk in and the life you w...ant to live in. You are responsible for your improvements and success as well as your frustrations.

Never allow anyone to criticize or judge you for they have no right to demand anything from you. As long as in your heart you hold serene integrity its all that matters for what you hold is true. You don't have to please anyone nor be someone your not for it only pleases their part but not the true beat of your heart.

Be hopeful in

times of trouble for no one can tell you what or not to do. You hold

the key to your life if ever you stumble or fall those are great

lessons you will learn. Avoid if's and but's enjoy the roller coaster

ride, for it comes once in a lifetime. Treasure the past, Live the

present and Look forward for the future.

iF people says something bAd ab0uT you, jUdgE you As if they kn0w you,dont get affected.. just think ab0ut this..

"The Dog d0eSnT bArk if hE kn0wS the peRs0n."

Everything happens for a reason, nothing happens by chance or by means of luck.

Adversity, uncertainties, pain and confusions; without these small test, whatever they maybe, without these life is dull and utterly pointless. Faith, courage and hope; these are the most poignant and important ones. These is were we get our... strength to stand. There are no questions left unanswered we just need an open mind to know one.

Sometimes the best way to deal with sadness is to embrace it, feel it, and get over it.

Give yourself a lovely day.Look upon what gives you joy, Speak to those who warm your heart, & remember that each new day is a blessing from God.Gud m0rning! have a blessed day everyone' :)

Find solace within yourself not from anyone else, listen deeply to ur innermost voice, if u want to cry don't stop yourself. No strong man can withstand all ds trials w/out being weak, we can only comprehend courage & strength by going thru vulnerability & fears. Hold on steadfastly from deep within, today you can be weak &... accept the things you cant comprehend but tomorrow is another day, a day to restart & stand again.

Dont s¡MplY thAnk God dAt you hAve mUch wh¡lE 0thErs hAve l¡ttlE.ThAnk H¡m bEcaUse He hAs ch0sEn t0 blEss you & ¡n rEtUrn bE a blEss¡ng t0 0thErs. Have a blessed day everyone.

Hope is the power to overcome all stagnation, a break through in any obstacles, it transform barren wasteland into a verdant field, it dwells in our innermost being. Hardship make us strong, sorrows cultivate compassion; those who have suffered most will become the happiest. So, no matter what kind of difficult situation one may find oneself in, hope flows endlessly.

Each persons that comes into are lives plays an intricate part in are development & growth, whether they're there for a minute or many years. Challengers are the ones who build your strength of endurance, persistence, determination, character & integrity. Encourager are the one who keeps you going when you feel like giving up. Appreciate the people that come into your life & be careful to treat everyone with respect as their role helps to define the person u grow to be.

God stands by us when were tired. Guide us when we think of quitting. Inspires us when things are confusing. We may not always understand his wisdom but we must always trust his will. Have a Blessed and Meaningful Day Everyone! ;D

A positive frame of mind is important, if you can sustain yourself with regular challenges and honest self appraisal, the benefits are enormous.Think well of yourself. Change negative self-talk to positive self-encouragement. Do not let negative thinking destroy your life.

Being successful is never easy. It is a continuous voyage, and you have to move along. You can find difficulty in any phase of your life, but giving up is not a solution to get out of it. If the road to success is always under construction, then be a construction worker. :D

Learn to trust your voice within & know that everything in this life has a purpose.That even when circumstances comes your way this are not mistakes, not a coincidences, all events are blessings given to us to learn from. Difficult times have helped me to understand better than before,how infinitely rich & beautiful life is in every way,& despite all the obstacles life may have;life is always beautiful come what may.

Faith in GOD soothes a troubled mind.

It Heals a broken heart.

It is a source of strength to a weary man.

"God Bless you" is such a powerful word.

It means "May the LORD with his gracious hand bless you

more than what you prayed for."

So, May The Lord GOD Bless you and all your love ones.

Have a Blessed day everyone. ",)

Stop worrying about the potholes in your journey but the great lessons you pick on your way ahead. Strength are well gained through sacrifices and pain; potholes should never be a hindrance to what we aim. :D

Never see obstacles as a hindrance but a source of lessons and strength. Storm may tumble as down but its not a reason to back down. Hold on steadfastly on your faith for no one said life's journey goes an easy way.

Most people believed that forgiving only benefits the offender. But the greatest hurdle we have to make in our process of forgiveness is to overcome the negative & self defeating thoughts & beliefs we hold within our minds. Blessed are those who ask for forgiveness as they humble themselves and those who forgive for they achieved solace.

I have wished to understand other peoples heart. To live life fair and just to others. Learned that Egocentric habits are first cobwebs, then it becomes cables. Realized that a loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-uttered words.

Your good heart shall tell U where 2 go; your sharp mind shall tell you how to get there; & y0ur deep L0vE for GOD shall guidE you on your way! Have a blessed day..

In life I have realized that GRUDGES should not hold any part of anyone's life. LIFE IS TOO SHORT to be unhappy.So laugh whenever u can. Apologize when u shud.And let go of what u can't change. Smile even wen ur sad,learn from your mistakes.Things goes wrong but remember life goes on so live it well.

Sometimes when adversity & pain overides our life we tend to forget that in every tears we cry are blessings in disguise.

You see in order to rise higher, you’ve got to be determined.

There will always be trial that seems to discourage you.

It may not always be easy, often we get discouraged at the first sign of defeat.

You should realized that what seems to be the difficulty may really be a blessing in disguise.",)

We all commit mistakes, what matters most is how we deal with that

mistakes. Forgiveness is not an occasional act, it should be a constant

attitude. Our gifts usually come wrapped up in a challenge, so remember

to open them up, learn from them and share the value that you gain by growing through them.

Respect is well defined when even someone you differs with learn to respect you because you stand up to what is right and true not because you choose to take side to those who you concord with. Courage is defined when you humble yourself with integrity, you hold the strongest weapon to defend you in all adverity of life.

‎Lessons learned from the past cannot be substituted by putting one foot in front of the other. Each moment is an opportunity to reveal a miracle so be kind to everyone you meet for they may be fighting a hard battle.

Yes, it's true: We can't control the wind or the rain or the other vagaries of weather. But we can tack our sails such that we can steer the course we desire for no one knows what he can do until he tries.


The difficulties we experience always illuminate the lessons we need most. Overcoming those difficulties makes life more meaningful and those lessons we learn will be our strength for the future.

Love can never be mandated, it can't be utterly define, it is vague, deep and mysterious. No matter how we question love, fathom love or elucidate love; love dwells inside us and unveil around us. So, be grateful if you have fallen in love though it may implicate pain, it is indubitably the most priceless, incomparable, sensational and flabbergast emotion.

It's a long road back from the darkest corner of despair but the journey is so much easier when you don't have to do it alone. Hold onto what you have and never let it go.It's when you give up that you lose and in fighting that you win.


Success is not measured by how many achievements you have in life. But by how you achieved lessons in your imperfections as you try to make things right. Success is not measured by the position you have in life but what marked you leaved in other peoples lives.

-*-*-*-Geezz I just realized I already have made lots of quotes. I'll post some more next time, this is for now. Hope you like it-*-*-*

Tooth hell extraction

Yesterday, my husband and I went to our dentist to have a tooth extraction. I was the first one to be extracted and my dentist assessment is that my two upper molars needed to be extracted. The very naughty tooth seems doesn't want to be extracted 'cause it took 2 in half hours and 3x anesthesia for it to come off. The pain was excruciating even if there was already an anesthesia the dentist said the tooth seems to fight back and doesn't want to be extracted lol. Every time the dentist tries to pull it out it seems to shrink back deeper. Good thing it was extracted cause it has cause me a lot of pain. Next week we have to be back for my husbands prophylaxis and me to have a fitting for gosh its embarrassing but I have to...need to have a denture lol.

Life

Life is full of unexpected circumstances, we often get mad and frustrated when things are not happening the way we want it to be; guess people really cant be satisfied. Every day we go through different phases in our life but at the end of the day do we get satisfied? I don't wanna be a hypocrite but there are times that I don't, yet at the end of the day the most compelling things I realized is that I get to satisfy my inner thoughts and learned lessons that I get to used in my lifetime. Like I learned that we should never make decisions nor utter ill unkindly words when we are mad. Because at the end of the day those unkind words can never be taken back and we only get to understand it when we already see that we already hurt the people we love. It may only be words but I believed it is the most lethal weapon that could make or break one's soul. And making decision out of madness and frustration is never a good decision. Why? 'coz we tend to lost our sense of sensibility and focus. Instead of trying to go through the details of the situation and taking time to analyze everything we get to rush and submerged to the circus of emotions. Thus, decision making is haphazardly done and results are more complicated.

Another thing I realized that to be able to have a harmonious living with one another, we should try to be more understanding in all aspects of life. It is not a lost if one would humbles themselves above others for everyone's peace and unity. Rather than be succumb in pride and selfishness, why not give way, forgive and forget?! I would rather have integrity than to show off and just because we need to fit in with everyone else way of life. No one's perfect but in imperfection we learn and as we learn we get better.

So, guess what I am saying why argue, gossip and insult when you could talk, forgive, forget and move on. With this: life is better, life is beautiful and every one is at peace.

Books and Emotions

My mind is set to nowhere, as if I am trying to grasp all the things that had happened. I was hurt so bad that it makes me lose respect in myself and bend down my self esteem. Of all the people why does it has to be you? I feel like I was thrown off over the edge of a cliff, hanging for my life because of the pain you have cause me. I can't help to think less of myself when you chose them over me. When, I have always been so consistent to defy all odds just to be with you. But yes what can I do? I love you more that I'd rather have bad times with you than good times with someone else (the song is right) though I can't help to compare others to us when they are all seems inseparable. Now, I feel less important than them, that I can never be enough for you. I don't want feel this way at all nor even think less of you.

I have forgiven you because despite the fact that this has made me lose my self, in a moment of truth I still know that at the end of the day I will always forgive and Love you more than anything else in this world. Somehow, along the road of our journey we could never avert trials that will test this relationship. Although we surpass another test I am greatly hoping that it would never happen again. We could never deny the fact that in Love we will surely have all the ups and downs. Yet, it is up to the couple to uphold the strength of their love and respect for one another. Now, I realize that the more you are hurt the more you learn how to love. In order order to understand happiness, one must go through uncertainties and pain so that the fruits of their sacrifices has a better reward.

My reward has been a great one. The test has open up my eyes and love for the books again. It has been a while since I have read a really good book. I have long miss Nicholas Spark, James Patterson, Paulo Coehlo, Dan Brown, and those authors I have forgotten in a while. Walking down along the big Trinoma Mall, feeling lose and distorted, my eyes caught a book store, and a sudden urged of I don't know drag me inside. Then, my eyes was lifted from crying into like sparkling diamonds, the books overwhelmed me. Felt like I was in a secret garden, full of beautiful books and wonderful scenery. My spirit was lifted up and I'm so inundate with all the beautiful books and great authors. I wanted them all hahahaha. What I wanted to say is this maybe the best lover's quarrel I have, for this has rekindled my love for books. Books has made my broken heart and teary eyes healed again. Not to mention the dress and shoes hehehe thanks hubby Love You!

Notions

Notions are inevitable but when people learn to yield and value the importance of humility nothing is impossible to comprehend. We cannot deny that once in while we get to be misunderstood or un able to understand one another. Yet, I believe that we will also be the derivation to mend things and apprehend that we bring no harm to anyone. Recently, I have learned that sometimes when things aren’t amicable as they were used to be; time and hope can bring those who have been hurt united again. We ought to learn to respect other peoples silence and a time to grasp things, fill out their emotions, acceptance and understanding. Then, slowly we would be able to compromise, mend broken spaces and heal the pain we all felt. No one should be blame for anything nor anyone is right or wrong. We are merely victims of circumstances or maybe this is just a test of friendship and humility. I am grateful that slowly things are turning out fine, smiles are seen, small convenient conversations are arising, a helping hand is being lend and no more prattling. Whew! Guess the spirit of Christmas is fast approaching hehehe. Kidding aside, I am looking forward again to a passive, amalgamated, jovial time to US again. Peace to everyone.

Hmm. my conscience- Catherine!!!!

I saw here coming down the stairs while I on the other hand is eating burger and fries. She apprehended me how stubborn I am to eat fast foods when she already have reminded me to eat healthy foods to aid my fertilization. I am trying to eat healthy, think wisely, positively and desist away from stressful, negative thoughts. Hmmm.. It is easy said than done. I am thankful for her thoughtfulness and very caring actions towards my journey on longing to have a child of my own. She is doing her best to keep me more optimistic each day that soon I will have my own child. But its hard, it's getting harder each day. How could I live my life without a child? I couldn't! I am 27 they say I'm still young and there are a lot of time for us to try until it'll be given. Yet, you can't deny the fact that the more it hasn't been done, the longer the pain lingers. She is my conscience and I am thankful for her, for always being a good listener, a robust-optimistic thinker and indulgent friend.

My heart bleeds, it longs and ache for an angel to complete our life. I feel incomplete, erratic and feckless. Last night as I was surfing the net I came across a panel for woman who have underwent HSG a procedure to check if you have a blockage in your fallopian tube. A lot of them is trying and longing to have a child, some have went to a lot of procedure just to have one but with no success. As I go on reading I learned that if one has a blocked fallopian tube(a lot of medical terms and conditions may vary) most of them needed procedure to correct it, sadly some aren't that successful. This made me scared, depress, lonely and slowly losing hope. My husband kept me of the cliff of depression, giving me positive outlook in life. Still, my heart bleeds and cry for a child.

Missing my Barkada!

Today, I met with my good old friend Ambo, he was one of the best people I have met in my high school life. It has been 10 years after our high school graduation and it seems like it was just yesterday. We talk about their simple get together at oyo’s house at tranghawan for it was their Brgy. Fiesta. Some of our barkada was there and how I really wish I was there with them. I can’t help but think about the times we have enjoyed spending noteworthy time with each other. All the happiest times I have is in my high school life, I was so fortunate to met them and shared precious memories that I will truly treasure in my life. The times that we would be so noisy and do absurd things that makes our teachers walk out of the room made me smile just to think of it. Going to the bakery shop to buy breads and ice candy for the snack was a simple, inexpensive treat; yet the time spending walking along the corridors, talking about silly yet peculiar, hilarious and stern stories made the moment worthwhile. Having to spend time till college was very tremendous experience for me, I was then thinking that going to school at the city well lessen the time and bond that we have. Contrary to that we became much closer and the friendship has become deeper. College life thought us a lot of things in our younger life, those were the times that we face and fought some circumstances in our own lives and came a time to test the vitality of our friendship. Some have deeply hurt us yet amazingly we surpass it all and have realized how we really value the friendship we have. What I am most amazed of is now that even when time and distance have separates us the bond is still strong and unbreakable. At times that we see each other or even talk over the phone I could still feel that things haven’t changed despite the facts that we rarely talk or see each other.

Today, I’ am dumbfounded by how time flew so fast and how I am so poignant of the fact that we merely have time to see nor talk with each other. I know I should never dwell on the past but adhere to the present and look forward to the future. But I am so exultant just to think of those times I have spent with the people who have made a great difference in my life and somehow became a big part of who I am today and will accept me for what will I become tomorrow. To you great friends I promise the that beyond time and distance even the heist of circumstances I will always remember and will never forget you beyond my life time.

Yesterday, we laugh, we smile and we clap.

Spending time with you is one hell of a good crap.

The bread, the cake and the good times we make.

I can face anything just for our friendships sake.

Today, we work, were tired and we complain.

Of how spending all our time with work and no more fun games.

The money, the career and the complains we make.

Dear friends make me sane again.

How time flew so fast that we hardly have time to relax.

If I could have one day to spend with you this will make me laugh.

Tomorrow, is another day to thank those people who stayed.

Stayed beyond time and distance and whatever it takes.

To the friends who made my life eloquent and exultant in many ways.

I can’t wait to see and spend prolific, jovial time with you again.

What is the one emotion that has everyone mystified?

What is the one emotion that has everyone mystified? LOVE!Love is the greatest gift we can ever hope to give or receive. Love is the one thing that can overcome so many of the difficult times that we are faced with in life. Love is so powerful - it can turn frowns into smiles. It can help mend the most broken heart. It can even turn all of the ugliness in the world into the most beautiful portrait we could ever have the pleasure to behold. I have learned that LOVE is when you give your ALL amidst everything that life may bring, accepting all his flaws despite the pain and dancing like lunatics in the rain.

When you love somebody deeply, they become your life. You cant prevent your heart falling in love despite all the flaws he can have. Love, can bring uncertainties yet willing to take a risk. It is when you have nothing left yet you feel full and abundant. But love is inseparable with pain. Pain is a test of loves journey. It is a time where arguments and misapprehensions occur, were rainbows disappears in the sky, when you say something that it becomes confounding and when two worlds collide. Some people surpass this test of love yet some relationship collapsed. We all faces different struggles in love and I believe that no one else can make or break to people but themselves as well. Learn to love without asking what you will give and what to received but love because it can never be catechized.

Optimist and Pessimist

Some say in life there are two kinds of people existing, one a pessimist and the other is the optimist. One can never say that they are purely an optimist, that would be pure hypocrisy. Why do I say so?because most of the time we tend to see all the negative in this world.When people are hurt and in pain what we acknowledge are the difficulties we faces in every downfall we made. Instead of thinking the opportunity of understanding and learning the purpose of each journey we face, we submerge on self pettiness and pain. We are only human, we feel pain and frustrations though as much as we wanted to stay on the top and be strong, we sometimes fall. Falling doesn't mean the end of the road, I believed this would be a time to mourn, grieve, let go, acknowledge the emotions you feel and a time to meditate, think, rest and regain strength to stand again. Then its time to take a step, to embossed, to move forward, and faced this difficulty as an opportunity to imbibe lessons that are valuable. So, I believe one can never be an optimist without going through being a pessimist.