Saturday, March 03, 2018

15 Years of Having an Online Journal

My blog turns 15 today, March 3rd. For a blogger who still manages to keep his online diary up-to-date, it is really something. I, for one, has abandoned updating my daily life account, for the past years.  When I look back at my "younger" posts, I come to appreciate the frequent updates I used to posts way back my early blogging years.  So I somehow envy the bloggers who still take time to record their day-to-day activities, which in time, will turn out to be memories.  My blog has been a witness of my life since 03-03-03.  Through the years that I haven't updated much already, a lot of things already happened.  But the most memorable ones were documented, at least in my year-ender posts.

Today I take yet another role of a dad, spending my day with my family and having so much priceless time with our youngest family member.  It's a delight to just stare at your little one tirelessly walk around the house.  Soon, he'll be more firm in using his feet and go even farther.


Here's to more years of parenthood... and hopefully, blogging more often! 

Tuesday, January 09, 2018

Mamsi's Here!!!

First stop, JOLLIBEE!

she ordered palabok fiesta. obviously,
it's longer to prepare than my chicken-spag!

After settling her things at home, she just had to visit the nail salon.  Right away, two persons are doing her manicure & pedicure... tutyal! :P

pampering time... coz it's always more affordable
in the Philippines!
Mom is staying here for a month.  I'm not sure where we can take her when my little girl has school, and I am in charge of an upcoming activity at work for the Chinese new year, which will require numerous coordination and perhaps, meetings.  Well let's see.  Welcome home, Sheena Ching! ;)

Monday, January 08, 2018

#EKfinity 010818

Today is my official 2nd time to be a godparent to a wedding.  Can't say "no" to Kate whom I've known from PNK when I transferred to the locale of Taytay.  It's flattering to realize that people trust you in terms of the advice you can give them in their life.  Her ex-boyfriend (who is now her husband) is not unfamiliar to me either.  I met Efren even way much earlier than Kate--- but fate must have been perfect for the three of us because I also met Ef in the same organization:  PNK.  I was asked to give a short message for the newly-wed earlier during the reception.  All I could say was their future kids will be lucky enough to have such responsible parents who always know how to take good care of little kids. 

(upper left, clockwise) that label: "ninong"; the newly weds & I; their towering wedding cake;
sumptuous food; my "kumpares" including Bro. Jojo

In my FB post about this occasion, I said:
Perks of always in attendance to weddings: you get to renew hearing God's instructions for a successful and blessed family life.  Perks of being a "ninong": aside from the trust the new couple gave you, you eat plenty without having to line up in the buffet station. CONGRATULATIONS AND BEST WISHES, Ef & Kate!

Tuesday, January 02, 2018

Blessed Start of Year

Just finished attending the worship service for the reaffirmation of oath of all officers.  It's just perfect to be attending this holy occasion on the birth anniversary of our former leader, Bro. EGM.  Also, I am still in awe to the magnificent house of worship of the locale of Village East which was dedicated last year.  My family & I have returned here from being away for four years.

with the Delos Reyes family (upper right); and the Villager boys (below right)
* mahalaga ang pagtataglay ng pananampalataya* ang pananampalataya ay katunayan ng mga bagay na di nakikita, kapanatagan sa mga bagay na hinihintay (Heb.11:1)* ang mga tuntunin ay nilagda upang matupad ang doktrina* hangad ng Pamamahala na pakinabangan ng Diyos ang pagtupad ng mga maytungkulin dahil nagiging pakinabang din ito sa isang maytungkulin* Kumpletuhin ang takbuhin na ibinigay ng Diyos sa atin!#ReaffirmationOfOath

Sunday, December 31, 2017

Thank you, 2017!

I'm just glad and thankful that before this year ends, better things started pouring in.  Frankly, I can say that I had a not-so-good 2017 start and until the 3rd quarter of this year, some things were still difficult to understand.  But my hope kept its fire burning--- that good things will come to those who patiently wait.  And indeed! God never fails to amaze me with His bountiful blessings in His right timing!  All glory and praises to HIS Name!

One of the best things that happened this year is the birth of our second child, a bouncing baby boy!  This cheerful baby resembles her mom a lot.  Always smiling, always happy.  He's truly a blessing to my family!  And I couldn't thank God more for this gift!

DJ's offering day, Feb. 25, 2017.  Photo with Bro. Benefrido Santiago
& Taytay resident minister, Bro. Jericko De Jesus
I had the chance to go back up to Baguio again this year, through the company of my best church buddies.  We really are supposed to stay in Pangasinan and Baguio was just a side trip.  One of the most memorable times of my 2017--- vacation with good friends!

Baguio boys: MJ, Khel, Mayor Carford, Xian, Narvin
(not in photo: Czyrus & Czarwin)
Mountain of houses has never pleased my sight :(
had a good faith matter discussion with MJ's tito, with Razel
bed sharing
early morning view from your place
...and the smell of the green rice field
never forget the worship services wherever you go!
batis na malinis... there is still hope to preserve nature's beauty!

career-wise, i get to visit Iloilo again for a very touching CSR project / experience.  A community we nurture, together with Gawad Kalinga, gave me a different perspective about "less fortunate" families--- families who live in a community where there is no electricity, and school travel for kids becomes a reason for their frequent class absences.  i, together with two good men, were assigned to document this "reality" but was instructed to avoid producing a pitiful story angle.  seems difficult but that "reality" made our assignment naturally easy to accomplish.  Kids greet you with smiles on their faces whenever they come across you, elders do likewise and acknowledge your presence cheerfully.  NO TRACES OF POVERTY, even if they have lesser than the standard households here in Metro Manila.  Children knows their responsibilities at their young age--- domestic responsibilities even.  Children are eager for education, and the community as a whole has been supportive of this.  Youth organizations established weekly tutorials for the younger ones, and "bayanihan" community services are regular on weekends.  Time well spent each day.  This is how they live without television, computers, laptops, and other gadgets--- simple but fruitful life.  More social interaction and community awareness.  One could wish to live in the community and forget all the complexity that modern living has to offer.

documenting their story w/ Joaquin, Raymond & Issa

Early morning pose with the neighborhood

community service FTW!

the regular Zumba session on weekends led by the Youth organiztion

Another blessing before this year ends, I finally got my long-awaited "movement." It has been three years and many thoughts of giving-up when this has been finally realized. although, the official paper confirming this "movement" hasn't been distributed yet.

For the many, many times I've traveled by plane, this is the first time I got really upset over a local flight.  Yes, i've had numerous and countless delayed flights before but this one topped them all!  I was scheduled for the earliest flight last October 16 to discuss an upcoming company activity in our offices in Iloilo.  I got the earliest possible flight so I can start my rounds early and have ample time to stay there in case needed, before the scheduled flight back to Manila.  Then this happened:  arrived in NAIA Terminal 3 at around 3am.  My boarding time reads 0350.  I checked in and waited for the boarding time.  It was a little past 4am when people began inquiring at the Cebu Pacific desk which at that time was manned by a couple of the airline staff. We were supposed to depart at 0420 and no advisory was yet to be announced.  A few minutes after numerous desk inquiries, announcement said that the flight will be delayed (as we expected) and that we should wait for  the next flight announcement at 7:00AM! Like, huh??? 7:00AM and WAIT for further announcement??  So do we have much choice?  After waiting for another three hours, we approached the airline desk to inquire.  We were told that an announcement will be made in a few minutes.. then the much-awaited information was announced: "...please be informed that your flight will further be delayed.  Please wait for the next flight announcement at 10:00AM"  Another 3 hours???  I've called my boss already to inform this unacceptable situation, but told her i'd be waiting until the next (and hopefully the last) flight status announcement.  I began inquiring on the updates about the situation at Iloilo International Airport, since I began hearing comments  from other passengers that the flight will be cancelled and that they are opting to reroute to Roxas then travel by land to Iloilo instead.  A few days earlier, a Cebu Pacific aircraft overshoot the runway of Iloilo International Airport and was stranded there for days.  Perhaps it would be possible to clear the situation from there rather than waiting for the delayed announcement from the airline?  And besides, I've checked PAL website earlier and they already announced cancelled flights to all of their scheduled Iloilo-bound trips.  Why not do the same, Cebu Pacific?? Whyyy??? So even before 9AM, the airline desk was already being swarmed up by irate passengers.  I've decided to wait and wait until they finally announced, minutes before 10AM, that the flight will be cancelled already.  7 hours of waiting in vain is just... WOW.

no sun has risen yet, i was already waiting near the boarding gate

Cebu Pacific desk getting busy attending to irate passengers
and at the same time inquiring about the flight
1-pc chicken joy-rice, and a bottle of water to ease our disappointment
plus one-way trip voucher to any local flight of destination
my boarding pass stamped with "claimed meals" isa lang naman yung meal na ibinigay :P
I've struggled to find a perfect business to 'supplement' my monthly income.  Things have been uneasy, financially speaking, this year and the blessing that came toward the end of this year should change my financial storyline--- for the better.  But I still need to plan for a long-term (savings) goal.  The numerous buy and sell products have somewhat helped me go through the year.. some of them are the following:

ladies shorts... managed to sell a few pieces  with a very
generous supplier willing to settle on a consignment basis

had one buyer but i had to recall since product wasn't original

good products, but not really the business product i was hoping for.
we still use these at home. really very good products.
the most successful among the products i sold. pagkain pa rin
talaga ang love ng mga Pinoy customers!
in one of the most 'sensationalized' crime stories that happened this year, one story (un)fortunately happened in one of our projects.  so when media reporters have to come and cover the story, I needed to be there.  Other than the bad story that the news covered, it was a pleasant reunion with one former colleague, Chino Gaston, and meeting a new face from the other network, Jasmin Romero.  The latter had the juicier detail of the drama though as it was their network who had the first exclusive coverage of the developing story.

friends by profession: ABS CBN's Jasmin Romero (leftmost)
and GMA's Chino Gaston (middle)
Health-wise, I haven't been a hundred percent healthy this year.  Found out that my triglyceride, uric acid, and bad fats have sky-rocketed after I submitted myself to a doctor's check-up when I felt once that my blood pressure also shoot up.  I was given numerous medicine prescriptions which I had to consume for a month.  Then I have to undergo a series of blood chemistry to monitor its improvement.  In the end (or after three blood chem results) I decided to just restrict myself to a strict diet (and veer away from the daily meds) as the doctor advised anyway:  LESS rice, NO softdrinks, LESS coffee... and some other things i love, i have to give-up--- or at least LIMIT, LIMIT, LIMIT:  peanuts, sweets, PORK (bye, sinigang), BEEF (or any red meat for that matter).  Then FORCE myself to physical activities.  Since I am not a very sporty guy, I decided to take the stairs always when going down, and walk the stretch of Shaw Boulevard after work--- from our office (Puregold Shaw area) to Kalentong, or sometimes up to Starmall.  Yep, it's traffic anyway. I also got a second-hand bicycle courtesy of my ever-reliable dad, and got used to take the stairs of the LRT station going up. Yes, going up!  I also forced myself to drink a lot of water not caring if I go to the restroom more often, and take my daily dosage of buco juice.  After a few weeks of keeping this routine, results are quite pleasant--- I even lost my frequent heartburn!  Now all I have to do is to maintain this discipline unto the coming year.

February 3, 2017
December 19, 2017. pwede na ulet lumamon!
In a few hours, it's going to be a new year.  A couple of things to look forward to for the 1st month of the year:  DJ's 1st birthday; mom's homecoming.  Then, let's take it one at a time.  God is good always, all the time!  As for me and my family, we will serve Him faithfully.

A PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR TO ALL!

Saturday, October 07, 2017

musings...

I've always wished to blog more often and whenever I get to post an update, like now, I am happy.  I feel I have accomplished a long-time backlog duty.  Blogging used to be a big part of my everyday life since it became a hot item online.  Today, blogging has gone a long way.  Most "surviving" bloggers are those who make it as a living.  Very seldom, from my bloggers friends list, that I still encounter updates that are diary-like, or an update of his/her personal day-to-day experience--- the primary reason of the web logs' existence when it began more than a decade ago.

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God's grace has been very evident this year.  For many, many times, my financial status has been on an all-time low and very often I struggle on how to make both ends of the payday meet. We've had a lot of unexpected expenses recently and the "emergency" fund I've been wanting to put up hasn't materialized yet.  I'm always longing for the next payday!  I've been trying some sidelines to supplement my income but these seem to be picking-up too slowly, or do they even progress at all?  I'm not removing publishing a book on my bucket list.  Not only I am thinking that it will make me some money out of it but more importantly, I can leave a legacy to my family, and to my country as well.  But yeah, it's a long work before I can have it running.  I've always thought that having a business is far better than being an 8 to 5 employee.  I hope I will soon have the courage to do just that.

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DJ & Daddy Jon :)
My son serves as my breather everyday.  Never does he frown on me.  Whenever I come home from work, and when he sees me, I'm thinking if I look like a clown.  Or maybe my son is just too jolly.  His smiles instantly take away my exhaustion from a day's work and hours of messy traffic.  His teeth are beginning to come out so recently he had a slight fever.  But this little boy is a fighter.  His appetite will not make you think that he is sick at all.  Reason perhaps why he recovered from his fever pretty fast.  Time flies... soon, we will all witness him walking already!  I'm looking forward to him growing up like a boy, and eventually a man, we dream of him to become someday.  I know what I've whispered to God in prayer before He gave us our little boy, and yes, His will be done!

On another note, my one & only favorite daughter now wears eyeglasses.  Her lens grades are 150-75, validating our suspect that she already needs to wear eyeglasses.  She often complained of having a headache and so, thanks to Aba, her eyes were already checked.  I hope there is still a possibility that her vision becomes better someday.  Too young for this thing. :(

Aya in front, the only kid who wears eyeglasses in their group.  Photo taken earlier today during their chorale practice.

Tuesday, August 08, 2017

Passing Eight Years of 08.08.08

9 years of blessed union

Today, I am being thankful for reaching this milestone in my life as a family man.  11 years ago I met my future wife, two years after we got married.  Today, we have surpassed the eighth year of our marriage.  I'm still treasuring the fact that most people around us see us and regard us as a "perfect couple."  But yeah, nothing, no one even, is perfect in this world.  We do have petty quarrels, word fights, and even misunderstandings--- not a few, but yeah, not too much either.  One thing that keep us stronger each day is the fact that we are both God-fearing, we adhere to the Christian teachings and instructions on how to live a family life.  We love our two kids so much since we consider them as additional blessings to our married life.  Life isn't easy, but we are taking things one day at a time.  Then we realize that by God's grace, we are able to survive all trials that are coming our way.  Many wouldn't think that we are financially struggling as expenses increase and yet my source of income has become stagnant for the past three years.  But it's just awesome to note that we never become empty. We may have less, and lesser, but never empty.  NEVER. God is good all the time that is why I always encourage my family to be steadfast in fulfilling our obligations to the Lord.  There may be trials, yes, but our loving Father will always be there to embrace us.  He is the center of our lives--- our family life.  My kids will grow up faithfully serving Him as well.  Aside from the basic things that we provide them--- food, clothing, shelter, health & education, one of the most important things we will never forget teaching them is to love God above all.  Our faith will be their faith, our values will be their values, and it is the legacy we want them to inherit when time comes that they will need to live independently.  Meanwhile, as we still have this strength and life, I pray to God for a stronger union and a more blessed life with my wife and kids.  Next to God, I love my family more than myself.

Happy 9th anniversary, wifey! I love you kahit para sa yo... "I'm nothing." hahaha! :P

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