Showing posts with label Food for thought. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Food for thought. Show all posts

January 14, 2010

A Little More 'GREATNESS'

While reading "The Possible Dream" By Mary Ellen Smoot I had some thoughts.. I'll share.. :)
Have you ever asked 'WHY ME?' I do all the time. Why did I have to be the one to deal with the grumpy coworker? Why do I have to be the one she calls and complains to all the time? Why do I have to do the cleaning? Why was I called to that calling? Why is this SO HARD? Why am I asked to deal with this.. I CANT DO IT!
Look at the story of Enoch. He was alot like us, he was given a challenge and at first, doubted his abilities to do what was asked of him.... How many times have you been asked to do something and think you are underqualified, dont have the time/energy, and are not the right person for the job?
"[Enoch] heard a voice from heaven, saying: Enoch, my son, prophesy unto this people, and say unto them—Repent, for thus saith the Lord: I am angry with this people, and my fierce anger is kindled against them; for their hearts have waxed hard, and their ears are dull of hearing, and their eyes cannot see afar off" (Moses 6:27).
We live in a world much like Enochs. We are surrounded by worldy cares, we interact every day with people that would have us not believe, and that would have us feel that we are in this worldy journey alone.. with no one to count on but ourselves. I know that is not true.. but there sure are times when I forget, and I feel like I am inadequte to do the things Im supposed to. ...
Even Enoch himself had a moment of asking "Why me" "And when Enoch had heard [the Lord's] words, he bowed himself to the earth, before the Lord, and spake . . . : Why is it that I have found favor in thy sight, and am but a lad, and all the people hate me; for I am slow of speech; wherefore am I thy servant" (Moses 6:31–32).
At first, Enoch could only think of his weaknesses. He was slow of speech, unpopular, and "but a lad" (Moses 6:31). I think of my weaknesses first all the time.. But the Lord saw greatness in him. I know that the Lord see's greatness in us as well.
I love what Pres. Hinckley said- "I believe that I am a child of God, endowed with a divine birthright. I believe that there is something of divinity within me and within each of you. I believe that we have a godly inheritance and that it is our responsibility, our obligation, and our opportunity to cultivate and nurture the very best of these qualities within us."
Like you and me, Enoch was a little overwhelmed from the challenge before him.. but with the help of the Lord, he did it.. he faced his challenge and he became GREAT.. So how do we BECOME GREAT in our challenges?
Well.. Mary Ellen suggests that we DO ask 'Why Me?' - Ask it, not with doubt, but with 'all the faith you can muster' We must ask the Lord what he wants us to do.. and what it is that YOU uniquely have to offer the situation. In this upcoming year, when in doubt, ask yourself.. "What can I contribute?" "Why was I chosen to be the mother of these children?" "What can I do to strengthen the sisters in my ward?" ect. We each have purpose. The time for procrastination was yesterday, BEGIN! Do the best you can, and know that you aren't asked to do anything you cant handle.
WHY ME? Why do I have to work with a person with such an AWFULL attitude? Because they NEED you.. because YOU NEED THEM. The Lord knows what you need.. how you handle and react to challenges will help you grow and develop as a person.
Life is hard. I loved what Mary said- "But do you suppose the call that came to Enoch could be for each of us who knows the gospel of Jesus Christ and yet still waste time complaining? Are we going to allow Satan to win? We can't afford to settle back in our easy chairs and say, "What can I do? I'm just one person."
Instead we all MUST say- "I am one person. And ‘I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me'" (Philippians 4:13).
What are your "WHY ME?'S" In life? Your Children, Your Job, Your Calling, Your Neighbor, Your 'needy friend', Your Spouse, Your Car, Your house, Your Illness?
Find them.. realize what they are and ACTIVELY WORK ON THEM. I testify to what President Hinckley said when he stated that we have a Godly ineritance. It IS our responsibility, obligation and OPPORTUNITY to CULTIVATE and NURTURE those qualities within us. I know God knows what those qualities are, and gives us those 'why me' challenges in life to help bring those divine qualities out. Let him do it.. do as the spirit directs, be still, listen to modern and ancient prophets. Ask in faith, and you will receive guidance in how to not only get through those 'why me' situations, but to become GREAT in the process.

January 10, 2010

A LITTLE MORE

Happy 2010 Everyone! Im SUCH a new years junkie! I love January 1st... I love fresh starts and change and setting goals and having something as great as a new year to motivate us all to be better... Mark and I have been hard at work cleaning our house.. ( I dont believe in spring cleaning.. I do new years cleaning) Its amazing to see how much junk we have accumulated in the past nine months! Anyways.. I was excited for this new year.. Cleaning.. Making resolutions and setting new goals.. Here are some of my resolutions:
2010 Resolutions:
Read the BOM with Mark
Get Fit!
Stick to a budget ( that one is gonna be TOUGH!!)
Run a 1/2 marathon
Get/stay organized
Show those that I love how much I love and appreicate them by putting forth more effort to stay in touch and serve them.
Its my first "year" being a wife.. I had NO idea how much of a responsibility it was to have a family.. even if it only consists of me mark and rizzo. Its my goal to this year set habits that will guide me and my family through the rest of our life. Goals of being a little more organized, a little more spiritual, a little more kind, a little more friendly, a little more giving.. you get the picture..
So in light of that Im changing the theme of my blog..
-A LITTLE MORE- From the Minariks. I want to make weekly (or whenever i get around to it;) posts about how we are trying to be "A Little More..." Not so much for the readers.. (although I just KNOW all of you check my blog every day to get a peek:) ) More for me.. to track my progress...and to keep myself on the path of always striving to be A Little Better. A Little More like my Heavenly Father, A Little More like Christ.... Because isn't that the point of life? To try and better yourslef every day? Be better even if the kids are driving you nuts? Be better even if your exhausted from work? Even if you dont feel good? Even if you would rather sit on the couch and watch Gilmore Girl marathons? Its my goal.. And Im stickin to it! Thanks for reading.. Let me know what you think about
-A LITTLE MORE-

December 11, 2009

Make Your Heart Warm- A Challenge.

So much to be thankful for-
Lately I have not been feeling so Hot.. My eyes hurt.. I cant feel my toes.. My hands and toes are turning blue ( I always did enjoy SMURFS when I was little ;) ) Im missing my family.. and Rizzo still isn't potty trained.. Im tired and want to move home. I complan and whine SO MUCH.. (my poor hubby) I went home this last weekend and realized I AM SO BLESSED. I love my family.. I love how my sisters are always there for me.. my brother in laws always making me laugh (especially on long family shopping trips to sams club) my neices and nephews and how loved they make me feel. My daddy for always making everything okay, and my mommy for helping me find the joy in life. And my sweet husband for listening to me complain, hugging me when I cry, and helping me feel happy and healthy :) Every year for christmas we do a "secret santa" for another family.. this year we are doing it for a family that is especially in need.. I am so grateful for that example my family has made for me. The example of giving back. I remember one year while I was still in High School I drove to Pocatello with a friend to deliver our gifts to our 'secret santa family'. We were dressed as santa and an elf.. we knocked on the door.. the dad answered. "Hi! Were santa's helpers.. weve come to bring you Christmas!" We entered into the house, a TINY one bedroom box, with no carpet, no furniture, cement floor, with a tiny space heater in the corner, and a red rug. The wife was holding her tiny newborn baby in her arms as she sat crossleg on the floor. She looked up, saw us with the gifts in our arms and started BALWING. She cried the entire time we carried in gifts. She couldn't even say thank you as the couple hugged us and cried. I will never forget that feeling as I left that house. The spirit was there.. Just recalling the story makes my heart happy.. I challenge us all to do something that will make your "heart happy" this Christmas Season. Merry Christmas Everyone! I love you all! xoxoxo

October 09, 2009

my thoughts today-

-I LOVE FALL-
October is my favorite month out of the entire year! (besides December)
I love the clothes, the smell outside, the ORANGE everywhere (it is my favorite color), hot chocolate, warm apple cider with cinnamon sticks, boots, the smell of CHRISTMAS, christmas music (yes.. ive alreay busted mine out) and also, October is my BIRTHMONTH :) I had a GREAT birthday this year.. thanks so much Jolene and Bob for making it so much fun! They made me sweedish pancakes in the morning just like I always have, and they made me cheesecake with my mommys recipie just like I always have.. I got great presents and had a fun time at their house. We had a good dinner ( just like always.. jolene makes really good food!) she made the best chocolate cupcakes.. i'll have to post the recepie soon. Im really grateful that they are so close to us so we can go see them on the weekends! (thanks for my UGG slippers mark.. they are fabulous... im wearing them right now!) (i'll post a pic later)On a nother note- I miss my family.. I do, like insanely bad. I dont think there is one day that goes by that I dont get really grumpy and yell/cry/ or whine " I wanna GO HOME!" (poor Mark)
On my birthday I talked to my sister misty and when I hung up the phone my eyes teared up.. so I closed them to keep it under controll ;) but then my Daddy and mommy called me and while I was talking to them the tears just kept coming.... I want more than anything to GO HOME.
Mark is great to me.. and he trys SO HARD to make me like it here.. he is great :) But lets face it.. my family is BOMB.. I could be living in a mansion in Hawaii and I would still miss them. (Although.. Hawaii would help...) Here are some of the things I miss about my family-
- My mom always doing something for me or for someone else.. she keeps busy and is always helping other people.
-My dad waking me up in the mornings with a leg rub..
- My mom and I arguing with my dad about the Temperature in the house.
-Staying up late and watching western movies and seinfeld with my parents
-Sunday dinner with just me my mom and dad
-Going to dinner and edwards with just me my mom and dad..
-Dad and me ditching out on mom after church to avoid staying an extra hour to be social ;)
- Our sunday get togethers with great food and football watching.
- Daddy daughter dates (especially when dad pays for the food.. which is always)
-Mistys dance class/Jr. Miss with Misty/ all our bonding activities.
-Working out with misty
-Telling trista " mommy im hungry" and having her make me a delicious snack in TWO seconds.
-Back rubs with trista
-Having trista and misty on the same street just seconds away to talk to and hang out with
-Google Ball nights
-Brads inappropriate comments ;)
-Brad always makin me laugh so hard i think i might pee my pants...
-Cold stone runs with brads credit card :- )
-Brett and how he always has a good attitude, he always inspires me to be happier!
-Brett always wanting brownies with the cool "edge" pan
-Going to pinnacle to visit brett in his office and just hangin out
-Bostin and his lisp and funny comments.
-Maycee and how she remembers EVERYTHING, and how thoughtful she is
-Pyper an
d her crazy attitude and pretty hair
-Mackay's tender heart- and his love of playing sports with mark
-Ripken and how FREAKIN ADORABLE he is
I could go on.. but I'll stop.. I miss it all.. I miss my family and how much fun we always have and how close we all are. I love you guys SO MUCH. I cant wait to come home!!!!
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

September 12, 2009

Walla Walla- Where's That?

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
So, I remember meeting mark over a year ago, and when I asked him about himself, he said he had been playing college basketball in Walla Walla for the past 2 years. I remember thinking to myself, "Walla Walla.. huh? Is that even in the united states?" For those of you who dont know, I am not too hot when it comes to geography. Anyways long story short, I am now an OFFICIAL RESIDENT of Walla Walla Washington. Mark and I found a great house to live in. (really cute on the inside.. i'll post pictures later). Its super cheap and allows us to have baby rizzo inside ;). Its nice hardwood floors, new cabinents.. small, but nice! the best part is, last weekend we loaded up a UHaul in idaho falls (courtesy of my AMAZING family.. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!) and drove it 9 HOURS to walla walla full of our BED couches and DECORATIONS! My orange curtains, picture frames, plates, flowers, ect. It finally feels like HOME. (sort of) I have a FABULOUS job. I am the Productions Assistant at Walla Walla Clothing Company. We sell amazing clothes, great denim, True Religion, Citizens, Sevens, Joes, Rich & Skinny, Rock & Republic, AG, Current Elliot, ect. Awesome tops and dresses, Bailey 44, Hale Bob, BCBG, Michael Stars, Splendid, Three Dot, Fifteen-Twenty, ect. and LOADS of cute jewelry! (the best part is.. i get 50% off.. i feel pretty stylin these days!!) Anyways, I get paid great, and get 40 hours a week AND i dont have to work sunday/mondays. I get to call the vendors to order merchendise, open boxes, put in PO's, and shop with customers all day. Its an awesome job. Mark is now the "Adavantage Point Learning Regional Manager" for A+ Advantage Point Learning. His job is looking very promising. Im pretty proud of him :) He is also the Assistant Basektball Coach at his old college. :) Im pretty pumped to get to sit at all the games and watch him in action. I miss my family SO SO much. And I dont know hardly anyone here, BUT I do work with a couple really nice girls, and we got invited to go to sunday dinner at a couples house tomorrow... It was a struggle at first, I wanted to move back to Idaho SO SO bad. But our big news is.. were staying here. I know your all so dissapointed that im not coming home.. I am too... :(. But, like the quote at the beginning of this post says, You will be more dissapointed by the things you DIDN'T do than the ones you did. This is an adventure for Mark and I. We are excited at the possibilities we have in our future. :) I have TONS to blog about, our bear lake trip, pics of our new house, my NEW BLONDE HAIR! (YES IM BLONDE AGAIN!!! YAAY!) ect. But... as you can tell, i have not been in the blogging mood lately. Hopefully more soon? Love you all :) Happy September! xoxoxo.
p.s. i just have to throw this in here, for the record. I have the most amazing husband in the world. Somedays I am so so undeserving of him. But he is always patient, kind, and thoughtful. He picks up, and does dishes, and cleans, and puts up with my whining beautifully. I love him and am way way more blessed than I deserve. Lucky Me :)

August 21, 2009

A Few Of My Favorite Things

SO- Life has been pretty SUCKY lately. (sorry mom.. I know how much you hate the 'suck' word) BUT I assure you that SUCKY is a mild word compared to what word SHOULD be used there. Ive cried more in the last week than I have in a long time... Anyways... I decided that complaining isn't the BEST way to lift my spirit.. but perhaps making a list of things that I LOVE will. :) So.. here goes..


- My new RICH & SKINNY black skinny jeans
- Rizzo
- Dierks Bently
- My wonderful husband that listens to me yell cry scream and throw fits every day and never gets mad.
- Limes (as always)
- My new house decorations
- Strawberry/fetta cheese salad (as always)
- Greys Anatomy
- Naomi from 90210 ( i just want to look like her.. is that so much to ask?)
- Gossip Girl
- GSN (game show network)
- Jaymi and Melanie
- Mckenzie
- My sisters, my mommy and my daddy
- Tomatoes that Mark my boss gave me from his garden (yummy)
- Haagen Daas Chocolate Ice Cream
- Cobra Starships new song ft. Leighton Meister- Good Girls Go Bad
- Prayers (I say millions of prayers each day... like I said, Ive been struggling with life lately)
- Sunshine
- My neices and nephews
- Cheese
- Hot Chocolate ( in 106 degree weather.. yes!)
- Ovaltine
- New picture frames
- My Tommy Bahamma Candle
- Eating at Bonefish Grill
- Famous Daves BBQ Wings
- Orange
- SYTYCD
- The fact that I got 272 dollars from Platos Closet by selling my clothes
- Blogstalking
- Being sorta blonde again!
- BOATING

- David Beckham ( my body pillow.... yes i name everything)
- The Nie Nie dialogs blog ( seriously, it makes my life so much better)
- New jewelry
- Going to visit my in-laws
- Reading
- Mark.. In general
...
Ok.. so that wasn't as theraputic as I thought it was going to be. Maybe I should have gone a different route and made a list of things im GRATEFULLLLL for.. I mean. Yes lots of the things on the list are things im grateful for. but I should have done a strictly "Im Grateful for.." post. Maybe next post?

June 23, 2009

NIE NIE Dialogues

Wow- I really cant even find the right words to describe the nie nie dialogues! I have been 'blog stalking' lately and I've read about this woman on three different posts- so I figured I had better check her out myself... Im glad I did.
It takes alot to make me cry- and Ive been crying the entire time I've read her posts.
I suggest you read every post- this woman is amazing. What I would give to be half the person she is. But.. if you dont have time to read billions of posts, start with JANUARY 2009 in her archives. Stephanie is an LDS woman in Provo UT. who survived an almost fatal plane crash- she writes about her daily trials and blessings... she is a true testimony strengthener! The post where she talks about her children not wanting her as their mother anymore because the burns on her body have made her look like an entirely different person- that one really got to me! Read it, I promise it will change your life for the better.
O yeah- to find her blog look on the right side of my page, scroll down a bit and click on the box that says I READ NIE NIE, also if you want, click on the box that says CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS to learn some other life changing things :) Love you all.. xoxoxo